Snippets of Life in Benalmadena

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Generally, the local people are easy-going, and very friendly people. You will get a ‘hola’ - their general greeting, from them, if there is eye contact. Even children do that. For those who know each other, especially for the ladies, their standard greeting is to peck each other on both sides of the cheek.

Children are taught to kiss, or hug their elders when saying goodbye. I think that is just so sweet.

The drivers are also, generally, very polite. They will usually give way to pedestrians, and they don’t horn unnecessarily. However, parking is not their strong point. There are many cars that have damaged corners. But at least they don’t run you over. Occasionally, you see some who park perfectly.

At pedestrian crossings, they will jammed on your brakes, to let you cross, when they see you approaching the crossing. However, it is better to play safe, and not to count on it. You might have the right of way, and the driver may be the one in the wrong, but all these do not make an iota of difference when you are lying in a hospital bed, or sitting in a wheel chair.

I see e-scooters have made an appearance here. I don’t remember seeing them last year. I hope that the authorities had the rules on using them better thought out than those back home because, they can be problematic, and have many negative effects.

The locals are dog loving people. There are many breeds of dogs – big ones,small ones. There were occasions when every time I look out of the window, I see someone walking their dog or dogs.

Talking about dogs, here’s an update on the dog urine situation. Apparently, dog owners are supposed to take along a bottle of chemical with them when they walk their dogs – apart from the bag to pick up the poo. When their dogs pee on the pavement, they are supposed to spray the area. However, the dog owners who do that are still few and far in between.

There are generally three groups of people in Benalmadena – the locals, the expats who retired here, and the tourists. You might get the occasional loud locals, or the occasional rowdy tourists, but on the whole, people keep to themselves and mind their own business.

I feel very safe here. I have never felt threatened. Anyhow, I guess dog loving people should be decent people right? However, it is always good to be careful, and alert to opportunists in a foreign land. I am sure we are the same at home too. No matter how safe a country is, low crime doesn’t mean no crime. Always good to stay alert.

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It seems safe and friendly but as you write you should be cautious anyway.

Thank you @kus-knee for stopping by and taking time to comment. Yes, it is always better safe than sorry. 😊

Wow they have a spray for dog pee! 😂 that's hilarious and also a very good idea.

I doubt it would catch on in the UK?

The first time that I came here, the whole place smelt of urine. This year, there is the occasional spot or two that smell. So, it is good to spray the area where the dog has peed. Bear in mind, it is very hot and dry here - 34C - 36C in the summer. 😊

Phew! In that heat it is going to be pretty smelly 😂

I guess that is why they came up with the ruling that you have to chemical spray your dog's pee. But, at the moment, there are still not many people doing it. I guess everything takes time to establish.

Kissing or embracing, but should not actually be taught. Only the child itself knows whether it has the feeling for it or not.
Only when you can feel safe is it relaxing, it's really great that it's like this, that's the way it should always be.
But you're right, it's always good to stay alert.

I think teaching the child to embrace and kiss your elders is teaching them to love and respect your elders. Don't you feel nice when your child gives you a hug, and a kiss when they see you? 😊

Love cannot be taught because love is something inner, in the heart. And teaching things is done from the outside :)

A child who has experienced love, and people has not done much wrong with the child will love and respect its elders by nature. I don't think it needs any teaching to do that. What do you mean?

Okay, I see what you are trying to say. 😊

Howdy sir Vincent! Well, what kind of problems do those scooters at home cause?

The e-scooters are all over the place, and most of the riders are reckless teenagers. They zoom past you on the pavements and there has been quite a number of very serious accidents.

Are you sure you're not just jealous because you don't ride them?

I am very sure. I have no interest in them at all.