I like my job I like the challenge and I love helping people. But sometimes, try because I may, I can not because they are not ready ..😇
as bad as I possibly want the client to succeed, there's just so much I can do to make it happen - I can design the best plan that I know will be effective, make as much accountability as possible, and work with my team to try to anticipate obstaclesforget it well the challenge comes naturally.I can help them find ways to change my lifestyle more easily, work through an optimistic or personalized creativity, push and lift them when time gets tough. I can trust them and treat them with kindness, respect, and love. and I try my best to do that for everyone who works with me.
the one thing I can not do is decide for them that they are ready to do what is necessary to achieve their goals for the work.
we are all our own people, and with that comes free will - we must be WILLING to commit to the changes we need to make to achieve the success we want in our lives.
I already have many friends who contact me and say that they are fed up with their creative saturation, they are dissatisfied or even embarrassed when they look in the mirror, or they are frustrated by how incapable of enjoying their life activities.
they tell me that they are ready to do everything I suggest, and they promise to be creative until they reach their goals. however, as they figure out what needs to be done to get where they want to go, sometimes the desire tends to decrease.
the problem is, you usually do not have to reinvent the creative wheel or do any kind of activity when helping people change their lives and their economies. most people have got to their place because of many factors and the same behavior, and many improvements are quite predictable andsimilar.
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the changes needed for most people to see results are usually fairly simple, often not even super-drastic, and they can make them see consistent and real progress without burdening themselves - that is, if they are obedient. and it is a big IF. often clients already know what SHOULD be doing, it's really a question of whether they are willing to do it or not.
it's natural to want instant gratification - we get it all the time right now. we do not need to work very hard again for many things in life, thanks to technology, innovation, and new knowledge. In many ways, this is amazing! however, or that the creative poster that sells the craff gets that way just by promotion all the time ...although it may not have to be rocket science, it's a bit more involved than that, will everyone look like that all the time things that people do not want to hear is that to SEE change, we have to MAKE changes, and sometimes that sting - often involves"give up" things that become appreciated, routine, or taken for granted.
there is some undeniable truth in creativity and success. for example, you can be more creative that is used in your everyday event every day for long periods of time and hope to renovate idea ideas, also promote physical material. do the movement withoutconstantly seeking improvement in the creative concept will produce the most impressive (or fast) results.
these are just a few examples, and they seem quite intellectually easy to understand - but they may not be as easy as implementing them, and thus present a stumbling block to many people because humans, naturally, are eager to avoid discomfortit is natural to feel that way, but we must WANT to push through the rough spots to really get through it, and we must WANT to succeed more than we want to indulge our discomfort-reject and sneak back to that concept, prodak, safe zone promotion.
I try to be friendly to my clients, speak from places of love, always teach, never judge, be understanding possible, collaborate with them to create strategies to make sure they stay on track, and help make everyone's journey surfthat I can. is my goal to explain (gently, of course) how certain lifestyle choices that have been made so far are those that create the discomfort they experience, be it physical or emotional or both, and that I am here to help themin every way I know how to create new habits and patterns that will give them the results they are looking for .no one likes to "suffer," but I have said this before and I will say it again - not much worth is gained by being comfortable. stepping out of your comfort zone, embracing challenges, and adopting an enthusiastic attitude of enthusiasm and persistence is partessential of pursuing goals and actually.
creativity and success is no different - if you arrive at the point where you are asking for help to achieve the goal, of course the routine you currently have does not get you there and so some things have to be broken. what has become a very comfortable lifestyle should bechange, and change can be daunting and sometimes difficult.but nobody wants it for you - you have to really want it for yourself.
The problem is, if you want something really bad, you'll do whatever it takes to get it. you may not always know how, and you may need to seek help and guidance (there is no shame in that - I am a big supporter of this practice!), but once you know the right path opportunities, you will walk straight and narrow no matter whatalso to achieve your goals.I will not pretend there will be no bumps in the street because there may be some, and that's more than ok, but if you really want something more than you want (and that's a kicker) you'll stop at nothing get it.
everyone should be responsible for ordering their own priorities. there is no judgment here, because different things are important for different people .I feel like I'm disappointing my clients if I spend my skills and personal knowledge and can not get the results they want, but sometimes I can not find a way to motivate someone who, at the end of the day, just does notwant it bad enough. many people forget the wonderful things they will eventually gain and get caught up in what they feel like losing, or giving up, at the moment. it is very important to play long games if you want to make your life healthier!it is sometimes said that the addict has to reach the lowest point before seeking treatment, but I think often this also applies to fitness - everyone has to get their own personal "stop" where they really have enough and are willing to do anythingto reverse their situation again.people are complex creatures, and I am not a psychologist - just a well-meaning social blagiate who wants to help people. but I can be confident with my approach and knowledge, doing everything in my power for the client, and really WANTS to help mestill can not get them to see results that I know might be if they do not want to take the necessary steps.
if you have experienced difficulties similar to what I have described, my best advice is to find your friend. remind yourself why improving your creativity is very important to you, and often contemplating it. believe that when you achieve the end result you want, it will give you far more comfort and satisfaction than what makes you feel comfortable andsatisfied while now.remember that progress is created from choice and action, and only you can be your own command.
what I want to affirm for you is that YOU CAN DO WHAT you want, if you focus on it! I know that, and I hope deep down you know that too. it is one of the greatest joys of my life to help people fulfill their dreams and personalities to be creative, creative people inside and outside.