Ukuvavanya
Kulo mhlaba, kukho abantu abathandwa kakhulu ngabantu, bezukiswe kwaye bekulindeleke ngokulangazela. Akunakho ukufunyanwa, ukuhanjelwa okugulayo, ixesha elide lingafunyanwa ...
Mhlawumbi abazityebi, abakwaziyo kunye neendawo zokuhlala. Akunakufuneka abe yinto enhle, ekhumbulukileyo kwaye ekhangele kakuhle. Kodwa bakwazi ukukhupha intliziyo yomntu ngokuziphatha kakuhle nokuziphatha kakuhle.
Elisezantsi ukuzithemba xa bethetha, ukuhlonipha kumadoda amakhulu, ngothando ukuze encinane, hayi enomvuzo, okanye uyintlebi okanye ethoba isidima. Soloko usasaza ukumomotheka kunye nezandla ezilula.
Loo mntu ngumntu ongcono kakhulu ohamba emhlabeni. Wathi -Shallallahu uMprofeti wethu alaihi wasallam ukusuka hadith ka Abu Huraiah kwaye zaye zamkelwa Sheikh of Al-Albani in nemvelaphi yakhe ezizizo "
المؤمن يألف و يؤ لف, و لا خير فيمن لا يألف و لا يؤلف, و خير الناس أنفعهم للناس
"Ikholwa usondele (abazaziyo oluntu) close (human antliziyo zilumkileyo), akukho ukulunga umntu akakwazanga ukusondela (uqhelene oluntu) abantu akazazi naye, yaye indoda engcono inzuzo enkulu ngenxa abanye ".
Abantu abanoLucky ngabantu abahlala befunda kwiimpazamo. Ukulahlekelwa ngabantu abafuni ukubeka ityala kwaye abazange bafune ukufunda kwiimpazamo.
Abantu abafana nale nto baya kuhlala bebetyala abantu xa besuka kubo. Ukuqalekisa nokugxeka abantu abangafanele basondele kuye.
Engqondweni yakhe wonke umntu unetyala kwaye akulungile ukunyanga. Ukhohlakele kunye nokungalunganga kuye. Akukho mvakalelo kunye nokunyamezela.
Akazange "afunde" ukuba umntu akanako ukukhululeka ngesimo sakhe sengqondo. Akaziva ekhuselekile kwintliziyo engathandekiyo. Awufuni ukuba yizinto eziphathekayo "maf'ul bih" njengesiqhelo kwisigulane.
Ngokusemgangathweni ukuziphatha kwenzululwazi nahwu yinto ethi "i-murab" ingatshintsha. Akusiyo "i-mabni" engavumelekanga.
Musa ukuthi: "Mna Yibani ubuntu bam le nto", mna krwada, mna sensitive, mna kunzima ukuvana, Akufuneki abahlobo ... njl
zingatshintshwa uhlobo izilwanyana, umlinganiswa a isidalwa lukhuthazwe (as in impoxo kunye zoo), kutheni angazenza umlinganiswa wakho "mabni" xa mu'rab .. ??
Kulo bomi bentlalo abahlali bebona iziphumo, kodwa bafunde ukuba kutheni. Njengoko ilizwi lisithi: "Akukho msi ongabikho komlilo" uze ucinge ngobomi bakho ekuboneni isimo sengqondo sakho. Watshintsha mhlawumbi uqala ukutshitshisa isilonda dihatinya, akazange alinde ukuza mhlawumbi kuba udidekile ebomini bakhe. Akafuni ukutyelela i-keu, uzive ukhathazekile ngekhosi yeziganeko ezidlulileyo kunye nawe.
Ngoko ... ezininzi izibuko uze uzihlolisise. Musa ukuxakeka kakhulu ukuba ungaboni "iintsholongwane ngaphesheya kolwandle kuze kube yindlovu inamehlo angabonakali". Kubuninzi ukubona ukuhlazeka kwabantu ukuya kwi-self-detachment kwakungabonakali.
Indoda elungileyo ngumntu ohlala ehamba phambili, ebala izibonda emzimbeni, kunokuba aqhubeke ebona ihlazo elisebantwini. "Ukuba abasebenzi abayidlala ngokudansa, musa ukuxelela umgangatho ukuba uqhube".
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