The experience I have gained in 34 years from women, men, love, friendship and business relations is absolutely nothing.
I understand people, if I do this, it will be like this, if I say that, I will be misunderstood... it's all a story. Every new person comes with a new adventure. Everyone has different feelings and ideas. Every time I compare someone I just met with an old person and get to know them, I see that they have nothing to do with it.
do not tire yourself in vain. start your life from scratch with every new person. it will be a bit tiring but you will continue without error