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So last week I talked about Raising a Model Family and I promised to continue from where I stopped. Please the first part for more understanding.
I talked about some few things that can make a family less of a model family. Things that couples do that makes it look like they are living together but divorced.
Lets look into them
• Broken Communication
Good communication is the foundation of a strong marriage. These day, there are so many marriages which have lost their togetherness due to lack of good communication among them. Unresolved long-term conflict avoidance leads to distancing and even to divorce.
We should note that marriages could be saved if spouses improved the ways they communicate with each other.
• Constant misunderstanding
Most times, this springs up from unclear communication. When the man thinks his wife means A, while she meant D. It could be an honest mistake sometimes but when there is confusion and unclarity, arguments tend to be raised.
You sure can turn your home to a place to be and put an end to constant quarrel in your home. All you need is God's wisdom to put all weapons of war in your marriage to rest.
• Home avoidance
Many people avoid their own homes due to conflict avoidance. This is really rampant and it decreases intimacy and pleasure in marriages. Home avoidance increases resentment between spouses. This doesn’t have to happen. Partners can learn skills to grow as individuals, cultivate intimacy, and move towards an amazing relationship.
• Room separation
Married couples ofcourse share rooms or should share rooms. But when the man or woman has started avoiding the room and sleeping somewhere else, apart from causing conflict, there may no longer be trust and one tends to become a suspect.
• Bank Account separation
We have some couples who share bank accounts, with both spouses depositing and withdrawing money from it when needed. It does not necessarily determine whether the account is joint or separate property.
But when there is separation in this aspect, there might be no trust and openness among them.
• Withdrawal of affection
This is like a disconnection. It's like the plug that charges the relationship and is partly plugged in. It happens in almost every relationship. Partner withdrawing for a few moments or hours can cause a fatal damage to the marriage.
• Sex avoidance
A marriage without sex is a lot like a car without an engine. What’s the point of calling it a ‘car’ if it isn’t exactly complete with an engine in it?
It has been socially proved by scientists that sexless marriages leads to the highest form of issues between couples.
Men refusing Women and Women refusing Men when it comes to sex is hurting and such couples cannot be referred to as model, talkess of raise other homes.
• Food refusal
The ultimate insult to a woman is for the food that she prepared to be rejected by her husband. When this happens constantly, their marriage tends to start ending gradually and ofcourse breaks. Men, especially should learn to make their relationships/marriages their priority to avoid being less of a model family.
There are so many other things that happen in homes that makes our marriages less of being called a model family. We should take not of all these and make amendments if need be.
Remember
If you nurture your marriage, it will be your oasis; if you abandon it, it will be your Sahara desert.
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Written by @oredebby and edited by @mediahousent
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