For some reason whenever a woman does anything where she requires or asks for money, automatically she’s a fraud or unauthentic or all these discriminatory slandering terms.
… I’m not going to go into that otherwise I’ll rant for DAYS.
Back to this topic. There are subs that claim Dommes that are online aren’t genuine because they require tribute... It’s comical. Let me shed light for those with that misconception with a couple of key points:
1) Realize the obvious.
Take a look around you with magnified glasses.
There are a lot more male subs than there are female Dommes.
What does that mean?
It means that Dommes can be pick and choose which subs we interact with. We’re desirable, sought after, and highly in demand. Meet our expectations as a sub otherwise, it really is your loss and only your loss. You’re replaceable, and many subs are happy to carry out with our demands taking the place where you could have been.
2) For some reason there’s a disconnect that, just because FemDom can be, or is enjoyable to Dommes, she shouldn’t require tribute.
TERRIBLE assumption.
For a lot Dommes, being online is our job. Whether it’s full time, part time or on the side. Online FemDom takes time, work and effort that deserves to be compensated for.
Why that's a challenge for people to accept and acknowledge is a mystery to me.
I’m sure there are some who are convinced that you can be sincere without cash. If you’ve deluded yourself to believe that and refuse to come out of that delusion; do every Domme a favor and exit yourself from the FemDom lifestyle.
3) You’re respecting a Domme when you tribute; her time, her superiority and he work.
You’re sacrificing and giving to your Domme instead of being selfish in your desires.
Fact— She doesn’t need you to do things that require no cost or yet another sub that gets off on humiliation tasks. You’re pushing only what you want to do, which is not only the opposite of being a sub; it’s a sad attempt of topping from the bottom. It’s NOT about you or your desires. It’s about hers.
Truth be told you have serious entitlement issues if you think that a Domme spending free time with you to humiliate yourself is really a selfless act for her benefit.
4) If it isn’t clear to you by now then I worry about you, truly.
But really, I’ll make it clear for you: Most Dommes are genuine!
Again…
Most Dommes are Genuine! Get that through your thick ignorant skulls!
Requiring tribute for our domination does not make us any less genuine. Period. End of discussion.
In all honesty one shouldn’t be worked up over this issue, it is however irritating to see that this mindset is still prominent.
It’s as simple as this: either participate in FemDom and TRIBUTE to your Domme, or gtfo. Period.
Instead of losing it and getting butthurt that the Domme you want domination from or the Domme you want to serve won’t do it for free; do something else. Find ways to solve world hunger, support orphanages, maybe even find cures to fatal diseases.
At the end of the day, this is FEMDOM. FEM as in FEMALE, DOM is in DOMINATION. What does that spell? FEMALE DOMINATION, aka the Female has control, aka the Female is in charge, aka your personal needs are irrelevant. Don’t like it? Then as I always say, keep it moving.
Yours truly,
Goddess Nyxx
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