"The Perfect Muslimah" on International Women's Day

in feminism •  7 years ago 

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"Every man wants a perfect woman." Ah, really? Then how about me that so many shortcomings. A perfect perspective will differ from everyone. Even to find the perfect somewhere there. As in the book Ahmad Rifai Rif'an mentioned that the perfect woman is always spread the benefits, never succumb in the circumstances, have a vision and high ideals, and of course have a noble character. Then where is the beautiful position in the perfect woman? My boyfriend once vent in the group whats up and said he wanted to get married because maybe his inner desires. Another friend replied, look for a woman who wants you to have an excellence in one of them. For example want beautiful women, or smart women, or women who are obedient. Because nothing is perfect, he added. The choice is of course with the risk of each. Beautiful women, at risk of a lot of shopping make up equipment that must be added apart from the kitchen shopping money. The smart woman with a bit of selfishness and not to be outdone, although in this case maybe the woman can in fact to budge. A submissive woman means you have to be prepared for the risks as the person who continues to organize and teach her. My friend's statement is basically to mention that no woman is truly perfect in this world. Perhaps it would be better to return to each individual, so that the joys of the household can be complementary to each other and understand each other. Towards the question, then what is the best woman like? A Bedouin Arab who is an observer of women's problems, was once asked about this. Then he said:

"The best woman is the tallest woman standing, the greatest when seated, the most honest when speaking, that if she gets angry, she will always be patient, if she laughs, she smiles, if she does something, she does it well, obeying her husband, living in the house, noble in the midst of her people, and despising her own fertile self, and whose business is praiseworthy. "

Of course the statement is merely an opinion. Every woman would want her to be the best for everyone. But a sincere and truly sincere heart undergoes every incident requires an awareness and a temptation of temptation. Like a diamond, the pressure and heat temperature that hit it can form that personality. At least that's probably the turning point and big hope also for every woman. Many also great women who want to go outside the border area, or the area left behind for wanting to spread bermafaat. Being a children's teacher away from the hustle and bustle of vehicles, and little access to help. Is not that also a noble aspiration..

Happy International Women Day

Hopefully with this all the women in the world Can inspire to change the world.
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