Every adult has his own difficulties.
Either busy with livelihood, or busy with trivial life.
Sometimes, not contacting does not mean forgetting. Sometimes, not saying hello does not mean not worrying.
People who say they care about you may not really care about you. The real concern is the mutual understanding between the heart and the heart, not just talking about it.
People who say they care about you sometimes don't really care about you.
Sometimes, true friends do not need to be repeatedly maintained, nor do they need to be repeatedly praised. They will be by your side at any time, just silently.
However, when you encounter difficulties, encounter difficulties and obstacles and need support and help, they will be the first to come forward and will not let you face everything alone.
In many cases, we always laugh at random because of a very good relationship, and even interfere with the choices and decisions of our friends too much.
No matter how good our relationship is, you must learn to respect each other. A friendly and comfortable relationship depends on the enthusiasm of each other, but it cannot go beyond the rules.
Sometimes you say something straight in your heart, which may make people feel embarrassed. Sometimes, your mouth is not covered. May make others feel painful.
Say what you should say for your friends, don’t say what you shouldn’t say. Only when you should help your friends, go to help, and when you shouldn't, don't participate casually.
Only by maintaining awareness of watching, watching yourself, watching others, watching your relationship, can you get along more comfortably.
A friend of mine is always joking casually because of the lack of this kind of observation. Sometimes he is joking if he should be comforted. Sometimes he obviously needs to help others, but he is teasing.
At these times, he always did some untimely things. He only cared about his own happiness, but he didn’t know what his friends needed. This is the typical feature of lack of contemplation, so he lost a lot of friends later, so I hope everyone will not follow him. Follow in the footsteps, keep a caring heart.
It’s good for yourself and others are good.