What pisses me off about people is that they whine about either work or significant other, or just life in general but they don't do anything about it. If you don't like your job, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. If you don't like who you're with, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. If you don't like where your life is going DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. People love throwing pity parties and everybody can say something to make you feel better but, ultimately, YOU will be the one to make that CHANGE if you really want to.