This resonates with me for sure, I used to have all the time in the world for online competitive games, but now, I choose not to.

The overly competitive nature of the communities for games like League of Legends, Smite, Dota or Overwatch just don't interest me that much.

MMOs used to be my bread and butter, but with raiding schedules and raid lengths, plus pay-to-win micro-transactions I just quit bothering. I still have a Hardcore Iron-Man (No trades or outside help, plus permadeath) on RuneScape I putz around with from time to time, but this isn't my life, I work 40+ hours a week, this is supposed to be a game, not a job!

I still have time for a good skyrim session or other more short form games though!