Have you ever wondered if you can suck your own dick?

I used to ask myself this very question in high school. You see, I was very curious back then because I’ve seen women do it in porn videos. At the time, I was contented with simply running my hand up and down my dick until I climaxed, but seeing these women lick and suck made me jealous. Hence, I decided I want to be able to do that too.

It turned out that it’s possible and I’m here to show you exactly how to suck your own dick.

Sucking your own dick sounds easy to do, but actually, it’s not. I thought I could just spread my legs and bend over and I could start sucking my own dick, but it didn’t work that way.

There are many factors that contribute to a successful auto fellatio. To start, one needs to possess neck and spine flexibility. Luckily for me I have the right spine length. I also have a slim body size and I’m blessed with an above penis size.

According to Alfred Kinsey, there are only two to three men out of every 1,000 who could suck their own cock. Luckily for me, I’m one of the fortunate few. But if you think I’ naturally blessed with what it takes to do such a complicated yet rewarding task, you’re wrong. It took me a while to learn it and frankly, I had to train hard to do it. That’s why I believe that this number could increase with the right training.

Why Try Self Sucking?

Perhaps you’re wondering why you should try self-sucking when you can have anybody do that for you. The fact is, autofellatio has numerous benefits otherwise I wouldn’t have trained for it in the first place.

Yes, we can always have our partner suck our dick for us, but remember that they’re not around 24/7. Below you’ll find some of the top reasons why I highly recommend this very pleasurable act to you!

1. Because You Can!

To start, you have to try self-sucking because you can! It’s something you can do on your own and with the right training and attitude; you can be sucking your own cock in no time at all. It’s easy to do and so much fun, too!

However, not everybody can do it, especially if you lack the physical requirements like having a long spine and longer cock. You also need to have a flat stomach to be able to bend well and reach your member.

But nothing is impossible. I trained well for this one up to the extent of trying yoga exercises to make myself more flexible. It may seem uncomfortable and even painful at first but everything is worth it. Remember the saying, no pain, no gain!

2. It's A Huge Turn On!

Another reason is that it’s a huge turn on! I’m not ashamed to admit that I’m gay and trust me, whenever I do auto fellatio in front of a man, it turns him on like no other kissing and fucking could.

There’s something very seductive and erotic about seeing a man perform oral sex to his own body. Once, my partner asked me if I could do it in front of him and I said yes. I started by masturbating my dick with my hands to make it harder, bigger, and longer. Then I started kissing the tip of my dick and slowly went all my way down.

He said he loved watching me do it because it was like watching poetry in motion. Before I knew it he was masturbating himself in front of me and I got so turned on by that that we ejaculated at the same time.

3. Convenience

Perhaps the most obvious benefit of knowing how to suck your own dick is the fact that you can give yourself a blowjob anytime you want.

I can still remember the first time I did it and how excited I was to do it over and over again. I was so hooked into auto fellatio that I did it several times in a week. It’s very satisfying because I don’t need anybody at all to do it for me. I could just watch a gay porn video and do my thing while actors also do theirs at the same time.

I was also on a trip once and had to spend two nights in a hotel and since I couldn’t find a man at such short notice, doing selfsuck made my nights more exciting and sexually fulfilling.

4. You Learn What You Or Your Partner Like

Finally, are you fond of giving your partner a blow job? If yes, you should learn to suck your own dick. It’s a great way to know some amazing BJ techniques.

You can experiment with sucking, licking, kissing, and stroking until you find the right way to do it that can greatly satisfy you. In return, you can use the same techniques on your partner and see his reaction. You might just blow his mind with your state of the art BJ skill!

How To Suck Your Own Dick?

How to self suck? And is it possible to suck your own dick? Well, first and foremost, sucking one’s own dick needs flexibility.

A lot of it.

For starters, it requires flexibility of the neck, as well as a long and flexible spine. In addition, for auto fellatio you also need a slim build or body size, and unfortunately, it requires a penis that is above the average (which is 5-6 inches).

Fortunately, there are a few ways that could help you in achieving flexibility, as well as the required body size and penis size. So don’t fret!

But How Do I Improve My Flexibility?

You can improve or even develop flexibility by doing some stretching and other exercises. Yoga is a staple when you wanted to improve mobility and flexibility.

After all, yoga has poses such as ‘the plow’, the ‘downward facing dog’, and the ‘cobra’, that emphasizes the lengthening of the spine and the neck. It can also offer you more flexibility in these particular areas.

The best way to learn these poses is by enrolling in a yoga class with a professional especially if it’s something you’re afraid of doing. It’s easy to find an instructor or join a class and it’s very affordable, too. You can take up lessons during the weekend or in the evenings in case you have to work during the day.

Another alternative is to watch yoga videos and do it yourself at the comfort of your own home. Remember to start slow and if you think you can’t do it, stop. You don’t want to break any bones for the sake of being able to suck your own dick.

Pilates, exercising with a foam roller, or having deep tissue massages can also help you in achieving flexibility and let’s admit, not all men are graced with such flexibility the moment they were born. Even I had to work hard just to earn it. However, with constant practice, determination, and patience, there’s no reason why you can’t do it at all.

Does Penis Size Matter?

As mentioned earlier, you need to have above average penis. So what if you’re not blessed with such physical feature?

When it comes to penis size, you may be able to improve your member’s length. It will take dedication though, like everything else. Doing sets of penis pumps and penis stretching every now and then will help you in achieving the required length.

I tried jelqing (penis massages) and they helped slightly increasing my penis size. Just remember that this process also takes time and results don’t just happen in a snap.

In addition, always take time to warm up and exercise both your body and your penis in order to have the build, size, and shape that sucking your own penis requires of a man.

And What About My Tummy?

Meanwhile, do you have belly fat? Sorry to say this but you need to get rid of it if you want to be able to reach your cock with your mouth.

Having a big tummy prevents you from bending lower which is why slimming down your body is also essential. In doing auto fellatio, bending and stretching are essential and are done easier when one has smaller guts.

Bigger guts and busts will only serve as obstacles especially if you are bending to put a dick in your mouth.

Loosen up!

Perform abdominal exercises to flatten your tummy, workout regularly and most importantly, go on a diet. Not only would you be able to suck your own dick in due time but you will also have a healthier and sexier body in the long run.

Best Positions for Sucking Own Dick

Unlike having someone to suck your dick, positions are somehow limited in doing auto fellatio.

For starters, it requires a lot of bending, among other things and even though there are certain and blessed men who can suck their own cock while standing up, or sitting, the easiest and the go-to position for most males who does self blow job is lying on their back.

1. Lying Position

A wall or a headboard is utilized in this type of act. Once the penis is hard and erect, try to lie on the back of the bed. Make sure that there is a headboard or a wall that should be a foot away from your head. This will be your support in walking your feet down so your head will be much closer to the pelvis. You can also lie on a pillow so that it’ll be easier and comfortable.

Once you’ve finally lad down, lift your legs up and try to press them on the wall. Always make sure to support you lower back with your arms. And once you do, try to slowly walk your feet down the wall and the let you crotch fall closer to your mouth.

Always remember that in having this kind of position when sucking your own cock, gravity is your ally. However, always be safe by not trying to stretch things up so far. Try to do things gradually at first. Things might lead to injuries.

2. Seated Position

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There are also other positions in the book. You can try the ‘seated’ position.

This is suggested for most beginners however, I believe this position already assume that you are in the right build and size and already has the flexibility required.

You just simply have to sit and slowly bend your head down until you reach the crotch. Hands are utilized to either pull or tighten the legs.

3. The P Position

The ‘P’ position is done standing. All you have to do is simply lower your face until it reaches the crotch, and is often done with the hands clasped at the back.

Always try to utilize gravity in lowering your head.

4. The Serpent Position

Want to do it the easier way? The ‘serpent’ is perhaps the simplest position. This is very handful to those who are still working on their flexibility.

Simply lay yourself down on your side and curl towards your crotch/penis until you can reach it. You can use your arms to further push the crotch closer. This is a good position for practising and if you want to lick you tip.

5. The X Position

The last and perhaps the complex position is the ‘x’. ‘X’ for experts, as they say. In this position, you need to roll your legs over or under your shoulders and cross them behind your neck. This in return, will lift your crotch closer to your mouth.

This position is for the advanced suckers. Work hard for this one. Trust me, it’s one of the best positions out there that will give you an earth shattering climax.

Risks When Sucking Your Own Dick

Look at it like the two sides of the coin where pleasure and pain is divided by a very small line. Always remember that there are risks when doing auto fellatio, and it’s the risks that you’re ought to face on your own.

For starters, there will be pain and injury especially for beginners. There might be instances, especially when you aren’t used to sucking dicks, where you might scrape certain sensitive parts of you gum, teeth, or even your penis. Also, auto fellatio also comes in risky for those who are prone to back and neck injury.

Remember that this is not really a thing for the faint of heart, as well as for those with feeble bones.

This requires tremendous amount of flexibility and commitment and trust me, you’ll never get it easy in the first start.

At least now you know what lies ahead. Always come in prepared before giving yourself a head. Just always bear in mind that there are risks when you are trying to perform this kind of act but then, what are preparations and a little bit of research for?

Tips for a Successful Auto Fellatio

In order to have very successful autofellatio, you really need to prepare and gear up your body, among other things.

First and foremost, try to loosen the body up with some exercise and warm bath. A good set of stretching the vital parts of your body is also important when you are trying to prepare for auto fellatio.

Drinking plenty of water is also necessary although you have to let them all out hours before the deed. Also, do not eat and hour before giving yourself a head.

1. Clean Up And Relax

Right before doing so, try to clean yourself up. Just consider and remember some of the issues that most women and givers have when it comes with the stench.

In addition, relax your body by having a nice warm shower and maybe a glass of wine to calm your nerves, too. Wash yourself clean especially down there.

2. Tricks To Stay Hard

Meanwhile, there are men who can’t stay hard for a longer period of time such as those suffering from erectile dysfunction. If you are one of them, sadly you need to double or even triple your efforts to be able to do auto fellatio successfully.

But then again, there are always solutions and in your case, you can try taking Viagra or other supplements designed to improve erection. Using a cock ring is also an effective way to keep your erection for a longer period of time.

3. Good Ambience

Once you finally get on the act, never ever try to stress things out. Just relax.

I like doing it with some soft music in the background, dimmed lights, and aromatherapy candles. Movements will be difficult when all your muscles are tensed.

And when there’s pain, stop immediately. Don’t ever try to push yourself if there’s something wrong. After all, it’s rare for any male to be successful in his very first try. I had to do it and failed several times before I was finally able to perform the act satisfactorily.

Trust me; a self blowjob is the pleasure act that requires loads of patience.

4. Get Help From Your Partner

If you have a partner, let him or her help you by either pressing your legs or your back closer to you cock. As always, once you feel pain, or if your instincts tell you that something is wrong, stop.

Always do this with caution and your partner should be aware of the dangers.

5. Have A Cum Plan

Many are wondering if they should swallow or not.

If you’re a straight guy who’s probably doing this for the first time, you may try avoiding having the whole thing in your mouth for the first time. However, once you get the feel and taste of it, you can also swallow your cum.

remember gagging the first time I had a taste of mine but eventually, I started to like it. Besides, it’s clean and it’s mine so what’s not to love?

6. Have Your Phone Close By

As what I’ve been emphasizing, sucking your own dick can be dangerous especially if you’re not used to it. Self BJ is such a gamble. There are risks, especially that you are being putting yourself in a very vulnerable situation.

So how do you prepare for it? Aside from doing the necessary precautions, you also need to have your phone close to you. You can never tell what will happen but knowing help is only a call away can give you assurance.

Is Auto Fellatio for You?

Ever got jealous of a dog or hamster, but not for the reason that they are cute and fluffy, but because of the fact that they can lick and fondle their own dick?

I am pretty sure that most of the male population fancy having their dicks sucked. I mean, who doesn’t? Even gays love it when their dicks are being sucked. I am gay, and I totally enjoy having a good blowjob just as any straight man out there.

Another thing that shouldn’t be a surprise is the fact that most men have at least tried, even for once, to suck their own dick. Yes. And that shouldn’t be something you have to be ashamed of either. I believe that it’s human nature to explore and try things just for the sake of knowing how it actually feels.

How giving someone a blow feels and how having your own dick in your mouth feels like are two different things.

Is It Gay To Suck Your Own Dick?

Perhaps you’re wondering if self suck is for you. And is it gay to suck your own dick? Frankly, it doesn’t matter if you’re straight or gay, because we all have dicks that love being licked and sucked.

Besides, you definitely don’t want to miss out on all the advantages you can gain from doing auto fellatio. It’s a great way to satisfy one’s sexual urges especially if you’re all alone.

I for one have done it and the whole process and experience have given me loads of chances to actually care and give more attention to my penis. However, doing self blow jobs requires commitment. It’s a whole process and it takes practice and care, but don’t fret. I have given you some tips and tricks that I have personally tested and tried.

Trust me, I’ve been there and rest assured that with all these information I’ve shared, you’ll be blowing yourself in no time.

/Shane

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