The New Year

About the new year. Not all failures are bad.

Some failures are good. Some failures are necessary. And this one fits both categories.

What if you failed personally and professionally? There are three types of people facing failure. Yeah, three.

1. The defeatist. It is characterized by a tendency to become depressed. He feels that it is not worth trying again and is terrified of having to face a new failure.
2. The optimist. No matter how many times the project you devote time to is rejected or failed, keep looking for ways to make it happen.
3. The person who performs insight. It can be an evolution of the former.

Failure is a great opportunity to start again with more intelligence.
-Henry Ford

Talking to one of my friends, I couldn't help but feel proud of her, who is the living example of who makes insight. People who reach a level of understanding that allows them, after internalizing and evaluating the reason for their failures, to draw up a new plan and start from 0; and even modify the main objective to transmute the journey into something useful. They become unstoppable.

Sometimes things change, and when you are part of the changes yourself, it's hard for you to see it. Does that ring a bell? You started with a project; a relationship; some career. At first and from your perception, that was your goal or need for the moment. We are in constant evolution and therefore, it is not justified that our projects are always the same. EYE, that doesn't mean I'm limiting you either. You can think, do and feel whatever you want.

Failure strengthens the strong.

It takes a lot of courage to admit that something you spent so much time on is not for you. Hasn't it happened to you that you have an opinion and some time later you think otherwise? Do you study, read, inspire and prepare yourself to continue to feel the same way? You earned yourself every right to make a draft.

If the wounds have healed leaving only scars to mark the places where they were, a new wound will also heal. If you're not where you think you should be and you're not happy, change the plan. After accepting something that is not for you, and abandoning the unhappiness and lack of personal fulfillment that self-deception entails, you will know freedom. What would be the next step for you?

For me, this year comes with everything and I have to remember very much these words that I am putting down here. As I said, I have never been much of a fan of change and yet the radical term falls short of what is to come. But they will find out as we go along and I intend to live this stage documenting the good and the not so pleasant. Happy New Year, birdies! To put up with the peeling.

The river has to overflow from time to time so that things can flourish.