Be Good To Yourself

in goodness •  7 years ago 

Be good to yourself? What does it even mean? How can you be good to yourself?

There are so many ways to be good to yoursef. I beleive if you really want to be good to yourself, you should start by being good to youself with your health and spiritual welfare.

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If you pay attention to what really is good to you, it all has to do with what you eat everyday, how mentally you are doing as well as spiritually. If you take care of those 3 things, your life will really go in a different route.

Long fasting would be one of the greatest thing to do from 2 to 5 days to begin with. I'm on my day 3 fasting right now and i feel great. Also taking time for some meditation for your spirit and mind. Be good to yourself on the basic level first, before your body becomes uncomfortable, which affects your mind and spirit at the same time.

Take care of yourself, before life takes care of you the wrong way.

"Your kindness will always return to you in any way, shape or form"
"If you want to get an education, just travel the world"
"Beautiful things in life are beautiful, because they were hard to achieve"
"Love everybody the same way you love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you have no one to love".
"You change the world by changing yourself and providing a little bit of kindness everyday".
"Never look down on someone, unless you are helping them up"
"Take care of your body, so your body takes care of you".
"You can't give others what you don't have; If you do, your're giving part of yourself".

Stay blessed.
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@javybar,
I got what the point you talked here! Don't be good to others, be good to yourself! If someone who loves himself we can't say he is a selfish guy until he think all others are same as him! So if we can love ourselves first and good as it is, we also love others with that great feeling!
A life changing quote and you bro explained it perfectly!

Cheers~

The quality of a person's life begins with love and goodness to himself. Being kind to oneself is not selfishness, but self-acceptance, self-improvement and self-organization of one's life. Thank you for another interesting post.

You are completely right. It all begins within us in order to embrace others. Thank you :)

a very good post @javybar, we must do good for yourself so that the peaceful and happy life is. ..

Very deep @john.docla we must be fair to ourselves in order to live this meaning ..

@javybar Be honest with yourself For every little thing in your life, you are the most reliable person you can count on all your life. Look deep into your reality, so you know what you want clearly and honestly, and what to do, so that you can see better, then you will be better prepared to identify your destination and goals. ♡

Very nice! You mentioned about we are the only ones we can count on, ourselves. If we don't on ourselves, there is really no one we can truely count on.

Javybar, buenos dias ,es verdad cuando te cuidas desde joven , en tu alimentacion , ejercicio, relaciones humanas en general , al llegar a mi edad , encuentras unas neuronas en perfecto estado , aun aqui debes seguir con estos habitos , y sobretodo no se para los demas pero para mi es muy importante mantenerme activa y asistir a talleres donde tenga que pensar y analizar , para seguir teniendo muy buena memoria.
Feliz dia.

Pues tiene mucha razon. Cuando se empieza de joven con buenos habitos, eso va con nosotros durante los años hasta que podemos tener las mismas capacidades mentales que alguien de 30 años tiene. Gracias :)

Of course I accept...I think a way to be good to yourself is to list a few positive traits that you have and list things you are grateful for. Being good to others can be as easy as a friendly smile or forgiving someone for something that may have offended or hurt you and sending them positive wishes in their life.Thanks for sharing @javybar.

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Totally agree with you my friend. Being grateful will give you ways to be good to yourself and others. Thank you.

@javybar self esteem is paramount to begin to love yourself and for that you have to make correct decisions

Think of the many correct decisions you have made throughout your life. Do not let yourself be overwhelmed by your mistakes. Congratulate yourself for all your successes and achievements. The simple fact of staying alive one more day means that you have made many more decisions with good judgment, than the mistakes you have made.

Also, remember that mistakes are essential for learning. Give yourself the opportunity to make mistakes from time to time, because thanks to your mistakes, you have achieved many successes.

You make many more good decisions than bad ones, and every mistake is an opportunity to learn.

Great thoughts my friend. Thank you for your contribution

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very true those who don't love ouself they never ever can love others.... because there you always need to be in you to support and love other @javybar

Glad you understood the message. Thank you :)

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  ·  7 years ago (edited)

@javybar You are right , Be Good To yourself cause nobody else
has the power to make you happy .. When no one is validating you , you can validate yourself ..
Some People's weakness is that they care too much it is also their strength :)

Very true! Thank you :)

I have trust mostly about myself. Treat everyone as if they were a family member. The way you treat people reflects in yourself. Even if you don't believe in karma, it can be wonderful for yourself and others if you act like you do. Do unto others as you would have done to yourself.

A great way to see life my friend. Thank you.

it's very true... this world we need to be good to in order to get bad what is good in them ... this always start with you if you are not good enough with you you never really can be good with others it's the truth which most of us really don't care ... @javybar

Nice contribution my friend. It all begins within us :)

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Excellent post friend and i agree with your thoughts and also like to mentioned that we also need to follow our passion and try to adopt profession on basis of our passion and i think it also belongs to be good to yourself quote thanks for sharing your nice thoughts regarding life with us, Stay blessed

Great point my friend. Passion takes a lot into place when it comes to self-development. I appreciate it :)

great thinking dear its true we always do best for our self and care for our health because health is wealth . our thinking depend on our mind and our mind depend on our good health . thanks for your golden words

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Your thoughts are really spot on my friend. Thabk you very much for your contribution

I'm stopping by! Another out of this world post my Friend! Two thumbs up! I absolutely love it! Warm Wishes! So very true regarding be yourself! I absolutely love the flower! All the best! Positive Energy! Great Karma! I'm upvoting my Friend! Your Friend @javybar

I appreciate it :)

absolutely right dear @javybar first be good to our self . we should try to best with our self take care of our health always be honest and love for our self you are well saying Take care of yourself, before life takes care of you the wrong way.

thanks for shearing

Excellent! It all starts from all of us. Take care of yourself first, in order to live with others peacefully.

Being good to myself, I think this keeps all members of the body from doing evil, keeping the hands from seizing others' rights, keeping an eye on not seeing things wrong and so on, before doing good to others first to do good to self.
Interesting post, thanks for sharing @javybar

i agree with your good opinion. To be sure we should respect ourselves first .be it our consistently routine,foods which we eat,things that we do , we ought to guarantee they are advantageous for us.. we can be good to others which is only possible if we are healthy enough physically, mentally and emotionally and pure from the heart without having any anger or bad thoughts.i am really inspired of ur good post. Be Good To Yourself.your thought always logical.best wishes to u.everything is perfect..thank u very much for your good creativity quality post sharing..my dear friend..@jabybar

Inspiring words my friend. You really got a great meaning from this message. I apprecite your contribution for all of us :)

thank u very much for your kind [email protected] friend..

Very nice @timuann the food that we eat, the hala we do must be good for us, then the next for others ..

Very well said my friend

Self is the beginning of respect for others, respect for yourself comes to know yourself, if you try to imitate someone or do something is not your truth will fall in the eye of yourself, and that means you must be on your right wherever you are, and stop acting and the ideal claim does not exist to improve Your respect for yourself.

Be honest with yourself and with others, and the rest of the things will follow. Respect is "in order to gain respect you must first respect yourself and present yourself in a good way." Good and not perfect. @javybar
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Amazing words my new friend. Thank you for your contribution. I started following you. Hope to see you often :)

Excellent post ... i totally agree with your thinking ..always i believe yourself . And take care your health because health is directly affect on our mind . Brain is the power stations of our body . Brain are damage then damage is our health and system.. please take care your health. Be happy stay happy .. thanks the sharing of your great thinking

Inspiring thoughts. Thank you :)

Golden words, my friend and the fact that you are now on the 3rd day of the post, very cool! You are right, we ourselves first of all need to take care of ourselves, to strengthen the physical health and mind, because these are the foundations of nature and the universe. I'm sure this will be the best manifestation of kindness to yourself! Thank you @javybar

Thank you very much. I appreciate it. You are the first one talking about what im doing. It is not easy but possible. Day 3 is almost over and succesful. Im thinking about going to day 4. We shall see :)

I strongly agree with your post, the proof someone loves himself is to keep his diet, always prioritize healthy life. Lots of people say loving themselves but rarely prove it. the attempt to change oneself is very important

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You are so right! Some people state they do love themselves but their actions state the opposite. Great point. Hopefully we will see more changes for everyone with our thoughts

I think it is very important to be nice, especially if for yourself, because we can never be nice to others before we can be good to the body itself, maintaining health is the most important factor and nothing is more important than that, without health everything will not valuable because we can not enjoy comfortably, thank you

Totally agree with you. Health is all we have to perform better as human beings. If we don't take care of our own being, no one else will. Thank you very much :)

To get a happy life we must be good for ourselves first. If we are not good for ourselves, then we also will not be good for others. We also have to love our body, from health, and always do things that can make us feel happy. I think we've done some good things for ourselves. thank you @javybar

Excellent comment! Thank you very much for pointing out our body and being is important in order to interact with others the correct way.

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health is the proof that we love ourselves, keep your physical and spiritual health as you say I am very impressed, because for some people only able to say it but very few are able to prove it, love your life then the person you love will be present in your life.

I appreciate it 100% it is not an easy task to prove it, but we must prove it to ourselves and no one else. Whoever sees our progress, will realize and take us as an example for their lives.

your posts always give a message and a positive impression, this is very useful for life. Loving yourself can you prove by eating healthy and nutritious, keeping food that does not damage the body organs that you should consume, if you love yourself and managed to prove it is a very unusual thing in my opinion. Love yourself then others will easily love you.

Great point my friend. It seems the whole story really begins within all of us.

Yeah @javybar, you are absolutely right!!!
One day, we will be just a memory for some people so we have to do our best to be the Good one. . .
Thanks for being with us and for motivating us everday

You are very welcome :)

Really motivating post @javybar ...yes thats really true we should give attention to ourselves because ‘health is wealth’...i will try to do fasting and meditation from now.

Every nice! I loved when you said: "health is wealth" and it is so true. Fasting is such a great tool to boost your body's performance. I admire whoever can consider it and do it. Have discipline and have a purpose to achieve your goal. Thank you.

That’s really true line..we should be good to our self,many time we forget to give attention to our self by only caring other..we should take care ourselves..fasting and meditation is really good idea,I normally do fasting.....best of luck for your fasting @jabybar

Thank you very much. Fasting is really a challange for all of us, but it's a way to give a boost to your body. Day 3 is almost over which it was the goal. I will see if day 4 is possible, but i feel great so far.

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Your post is very soul touching and relatable with anyone. Being good to ownself reflects the potential of how good we can be to others.those who are good to themselves see the world better and good in everything. I like your posts alot where we get to share our thoughts.thanks

Thank you very much. When you take care of yourself, you can help others. I started following you. Hope to see you often

Exactly regard yourself then no one but we can regard others which is just conceivable on the off chance that we are sufficiently sound physically, rationally and candidly and unadulterated from the heart without having any outrage or awful contemplation which may hamper on selves. We legitimate to yourself and afterward no one but you can sufficiently genuine others. On the off chance that you are there then you can look others in the event that you are not there you don't need to look after...@javybar

Definitely any major change begins with all of us. I appreciate your comment and i started following you. Hope to see you often

A very good post @javybar. In this life we must be nice to ourselves. As you say, starting from maintaining health, we also do not stingy for ourselves, for example we want something, and we also have money. We must fulfill that, if we do not fulfill that desire, then we do not care about ourselves. Thanks for sharing, hope you have a wonderful day ... :)

I totally apreciate your thoughts. Our health is really thr wealth we all have, no matter who says otherwise. Thank you for your contribution my friend

Being good to ownself reflects the potential of how good we can be to others.those who are good to themselves see the world better and good in everything.i agree your good opinion. ots of people say loving themselves but rarely prove it. the attempt to change oneself is very important.thanks to your good post sharing my dear friend..@jabybar

Excellent comment my friend. It all begins with all of us. Thank you very much

yeah,thank u..@javybar

"Be Good To Yourself" by @javybar, Really your fascinating word in this article impressed me. There are many way to keep good my self. But I have liked your logical word in this post. If I cant happy so nobody will be happy by me. This is the 100 % logical word. Thank you for your worthy word in this post. Really I felt in love to your writing. This post resteem by @jareen61.

I appreciate your words. These posts are picked specifically to help all of us and analize what we are doing to start making changes to what we see negative in us. We all are worth to try anything to improve our lives. Thank you very much :)

Excatly be good to yourself then only we can be good to others which is only possible if we are healthy enough physically, mentally and emotionally and pure from the heart without having any anger or bad thoughts which might harmper onselves. We honest to youself and then only you can honest enough others. If you are there then you can look others if you arent there you dont have to look after...@javybar

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We need to be good to ourself first with any means and ways possible cause if we are good to ourselves we can be good to others.a part of who we are is reflected on other so it is very important. Thank u..@javybar

Wow thank you very much for your contribution. I started following you. Hope to see you often

Another great post from you. Yes we should be good to ourselves first .be it our daily routine,foods which we eat,things that we do , we should make sure they are good for us, not only that even in relationships and among people some don’t put themselves first which is a good thing but not always so in that way too we should put ourselves first. Thanks for sharing.

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Great comment my friend. Everything really begins with all of us first.

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Another marvelous post from you. To be sure we should respect ourselves first .be it our consistently routine,foods which we eat,things that we do , we ought to guarantee they are advantageous for us, not only that notwithstanding observing somebody and among people some don't put themselves first which is something worth being appreciative for yet not by and large so in that extremely we should put ourselves first

Very well said my friend. I appreciate it a lot

Well yes buddy ,if we can be good to ourselves than we can towards others as well in various ways !

This strategy applies to the every matter of this life. No matter, where you are going to start just be good to you and all will be good in the future. You did a good job to give a good breath to all steemians who are reading your post.

if we are happy from inside then only we can make others happy too so we have to take our responsibility as well :)

I agree completely. Only when you start to take care of yourself, you can take care of others around you.

Long fasting would be one of the greatest thing to do from 2 to 5 days to begin with.

It is one of the best things you can do to your health. Fasting is like giving your body a new start.

It is complety true my friend. Thank you for your contribution.

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Right!! TakeCare of yourself is the best way to improve your personality to make more an more good yourself
makes good healthy habits. We should surround yourself with the old people and the company of good friendz wefeel good with spend time with nice personalities. We should don't comparing of yourself with others, cause we waste our precious time of life

Goodness is always two ways street. Do good have good. This is such a deep approach that have potential to change the whole society with little acts and efforts so first comes this. The point you arose is also much worthy and off course if one is functional and good to himself then he can change the world in a ore functional way.

Thanks a lot for the motivation my friend @javybar <3

Absolutely worth sharing this amazing post! I'd say when one isn't good to himself then how can we expect from him to be good with his family!!! If he's good towards his family then he must be good towards the other members of the society!!! If someone is good to himself then he'll be the happiest person in the world!! He must be active mentally and physically!! He must look after his health and other important things!! If he'll be able to do all these things then he'll be a ONE MAN ARMY!!!
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You are absolutely right, first we should think about overself, what we need, what we eat, which is best for yourself and what is wroung things, first of all we should understand. Its is the important to known yourself and make be good personality.
I love myself, forgive myself and be good myself, if we do that, feel rest of yourself. 💕

Very well said my friend. Keep that up all the time :)

We sometime for other's happiness don't even think about ourself for even a second because we want to see happiness on others face but what happens during that coarse of time is that we lack in health and our happiness and energy level is not the same to see others happy we need to be stay happy from inside :) 

Thanks a lot again for sharing this

Have a great day ahead,

Cheers.  

its really great thinking dear we take care our self Exactly regard yourself then no one but we can regard others which is just conceivable on the off chance that we are sufficiently sound physically, rationally and candidly and unadulterated from the heart without having any outrage or awful contemplation which may hamper on selves. We legitimate to yourself and afterward no one but you can sufficiently genuine others. On the off chance that you are there then you can look others in the event that you are not there you don't need to look after...@javybar

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well said be good to yourself. In this way you make yourself fit & healthy. Healthy mind focus better and do more good for himself and community. First step to make yourself happy is don't compare yourself with other.Fasting is the best way to keep yourself fit and healthy. Being Muslim we keep fast for a month. keep sharing @javybar

I agree with you. I do admire you guys for that a lot. Thank you very much :)

I love this the most "beautiful things in life are beautiful, because they were hard to achieve."Nothing comes easy, you have to break a sweat, and never give up because you never know when things will get better. Nice post.

Very well said my friend. I started following you. Hope to see you often :)

I followed you too.

You are right @javybar and thats good you trying to fasting hope you will full fasting 5 . And feel good health. You bekind yourself and dont do wrong because bad karma will come to you . Life is so shot so love yourself .
This topic actully very good make me happy .
Thanks for sharing great post .
Stay blessed.
Steem on!

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Thank you my friend. Fasting is not easy but it's not impossible. Thank you

Yes i know we all muslim every year one month non stop fasting . And after fasting mont we have a big celebration day we call EID day. This is our happy day. Thanks for reply you are very kind human .
Stay blessed .
Steem on!

Very good post,
I will always follow each of your posts because I believe here I can learn,
With the imformations and posts you share,
Thank you @javybar

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You are very welcome :)

i agree with you dear many ways to good our self and we pay attention to good ourself first . we take care our health because our health directly effected on our mind . thanks for this kind word its very great thinking

Great learning my friend

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Yes dear @javybar this is the good point and it's true weshould start by being good to ourself with our health and spiritual welfar. And we always pay attention to what be good to our self . We take care our hey if we are healthy then our mind think better and best for our self Thanks for this great post

Very well said my friend :)

@javybar, Absolutely brilliant title discussion. I agree with you friend every your contents. There are so many methods have to find for be good ourselves. Believe in yourself. Respect other listen to their point of opinion, take them in consideration but do what best suits you. Smile often. Also we have to do, You need to find something for yourself what you love, something you really get into and to be proud of yourself. Start loving yourself by telling you nice things to yourself and then move on to others. Encounter others with a smile. Show others that you like them.Then after surely we can be good. Be happy and stay blessed.

Amazing advices coming from you. Loving ourselves, smiling more often and listening. Thank you very much my friend :)

being nice to yourself is very important,
because we must also be able to love ourselves so that we are always in good health,
diet should be on guard, and the most important health

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very motivating @javybar,
We have to behave well toward myself,
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wow posting is very good hopefully I will always be able to see your post

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lovely post...@javybar

You share a good information we want to be good to ourself too lifestyles is bit abnormal however taking care of things at the side of our very own we will do a number of brilliant things.

Wow.. amazing post.
I appreciate your self
Thanks for sharing this..resteemit.

Absolutely! Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift we have…on should strive hard to take care of himself...

Great post.it's very important for himself
I will always follow each of your posts because I believe here I can learn,
Thank you @javybar

Amazing article sir... really liked it.. we all should trust & good to be us.

Yeah fasting is great...we muslim fast for a whole month...

Yep! Be good to yourself, Awesome message @javybar

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We need to be good to ourself too life is bit strange but taking care of things along with our own we can do a lot of great things

Life is meant to be helped others and we should not expect much in return but only help those who are in need others just take advantage

Agreed with you @javybar!
If you want to be good to yourself then you should start with your health & spiritual welfare.

we need to be good with ourself too nicely stated we sometime just forget that we are important too

Its simple small sentence but it has got a vast meaning. If you start staying good to yourself you will develop a perfect character and that will help in acting good with others too.

This is soo true man. Love everybody the same If you do not love yourself, you have no one to love. Everybody arrives on this planet with unique desires, gifts, and talents, and as you journey through life, your job is to discover what yours are, to nurture them and to bloom into the most authentic, gleeful, and badassiest version of yourself. People love to tell you what you should and shouldn’t want, regardless of how you feel about it. Even worse, we’re so malleable, if we listen to them long enough we’ll tell ourselves what we should and shouldn’t want, regardless of how we feel deep down. If we’re not careful, we can stay stuck for years, or even lifetimes, in situations that cause us pain because we’d rather defend these nontruths than upset or disappoint anybody, our own inner critics included. We’d rather do what’s expected of us than give ourselves permission to be, do, and have what feels good and right and awesome.