The secret of happiness is to appreciate

in happiness •  4 years ago 

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Many people yearn for the appreciation of others, but we often cannot give them appreciation, but only desire others' appreciation. We must know that the appreciation of others is the core of tapping our greatest potential.

The reason why men like to be with women is largely because women appreciate the contributions of men.

A woman’s positive appreciation will increase the testosterone level in a man’s body and will enable him to show a better side.

For example:

When a person is speaking, as long as he is talking rationally, we can say: "This makes sense."

When a person expresses his thoughts, as long as he is right, we can say: "Yes."
Happy women are the most attractive to men. A man has unlimited motivation only when he is appreciated.

If you want a man to love you more and more, you must learn to appreciate the power of a man and continue to praise him. Over time, men will like this feeling and treat you better and better.

In the interaction between the sexes, in addition to trust, they also need to understand and tolerate each other.

People are accustomed to thinking about problems from their own point of view, and often ignore the understanding of others.

Even many people have become accustomed to being two people together and feel that their partner's contribution to them is reasonable.

In fact, no matter how long the two have been together, they both need to remember how the other treats them and understand their difficulties.

A woman's understanding of men will make men feel respected and lead a relaxed and happy life with women who know him.

The biggest worry for men is that they feel controlled.

If a woman complains and accuses in an unpleasant tone, even the smallest things can have a huge impact on men.

Such as:
"Why are you late again."
"You know this job."
"Why do you always do this."
"You can't clean up the room."

Every sentence above seems very ordinary, but every complaint against you is here to question his ability.

When a woman communicates with a man in a complaining mood, from the perspective of the man, this is the tone of the mother scolding the child.

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If a man feels hurt, he will become defensive, and a woman will ignore many things accordingly. They will listen selectively and will fight back.

Women want to use complaining to get a man's response, but complaining will only make men pay less, not more.

If a woman tells a man calmly: "You are late, I am afraid without you", "I want you to accompany me, I will not see you for a few days, I miss you", this will not annoy them.

If you want more love from men, then you must complain less and praise more. This is the secret of love.

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