Don't Let Things Steal Your Happiness

in happiness •  7 years ago  (edited)

Don't Let Things Steal Your Happiness

It's very interesting how some things can take our happiness away from us. We can lose our good moments just by thinking on paying our bills and taxes because they take the hard work of yours for things you don't even agree with them. Good moments go away because of financial stuff, some illness, some disagreements or because someone broke your heart.

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All these situations are external and internal things we deal with everyday. Some bigger than others and some smaller than others. The bottom line is that we have control of all these things and can be managed the best way possible. The meaning of this post is to realize that external things are mainly an illusion to steal your peace and happiness.

If you are not satisfied where you are, take it slowly and don't punish yourself for little things. All you are attracting is the opposite of what you really want. The day the external things don't affect your happiness, you will handle the world in an effortless way from that point forward, because the energy from within will lead you the correct way.

Live constantly happy moments and focus your energy from within to liberate yourself from the external negative things.

Many blessings to all.

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Excellent post friend and i agree with your thoughts, i think we all need to accept where we are in life and continue work with what ever gadgets we have and i am sure more good will come along the way, thanks for sharing your nice thoughts with us, Stay blessed

Good to see you back my friend. We missed you. Hope everything is doing well or better. Thank you for your contribution.

Certainly my friend should always pay attention to the moments of happiness that surround him and embrace and enjoy them as much as possible and not to associate his happiness with material things on which his life.

You just summarized the whole understanding of this post. I appreciate you reading and coming out with a legit comment and meaningful at the same time. Thank you very much.

Internal thongs are important then external we should dont loose ourbeutifull moments for billing problums and pocket . Because life is so beautifull and beautifull moments can more
beautifull your life .

, we often ruin our happiness with trivial things, a father scolded his son who will soak into the sea by reason still too early, sianak feel left out, disappointed, happiness we struggle with the preparation of our holidays we break in just a moment, enjoy all the circumstances in order to get happiness ,,success always make you friend.your thought always perfect..thanks to sharing for your best article..oh my best friend..how are you? i hope that,you are fine today.pls upvote my post.because when you upbote my post.i think you stayed my sides.you not upvote my post.i think you ignore me..so,your upvote very helpful for me. because its my future success very soon bring may early.you are my best friend in my real life... obviously thanks to god becsuse god giving gift your as similar one friend you.pls upvote my link..take care yourself and best of luck of your great work..my dear best friend... @javybar.. very well done..see you again..

You said right things @javybar. Every time try to spend with joyful moments. Someone has sadness they didn't get external things. Think carefully. The world have more richest peoples with huge external wealth. But they haven't enough time to spend with their lovelies, they haven't happiness because their families hasn't happiness. So better I think basically must seek happiness.

have you seen the pursue of happiness with WIll Smith and his Son? It's really what really looks like in this world and how to overcome all things. thank you for your comment my friend :)

Very nice inspirational and motivational post @javybar we should not allow any thing or any person to steal our happiness. Your grief, your sorrow, broken heart, materialistic things, anger steal your happiness. We should understand it is me who control myself. I am responsible of my happiness so I should take care of my happiness and this is possible if I don't give importannce to other things like materialistic things gif and sorrow. Thanks for sharing @javybar

Everything you mentioned is really really important for all of us my friend, thank you very much :)

You are right @javybar iam totally agree with you because money is not most important but moments are really important . If I have a chance to choose one of them then I will choose moments not money

very good decision, totally agree with you :)

If you are not satisfied where you are, take it slowly and don't punish yourself for little things.

Awesome! I follow your suggestion, you're truly said, we should constant on happiness rather than the bad situation. The happiness of life here an there, just we find it positively and live life happily.

I could not agree better my friend, thank you very much for your amazing input :)

Hello my friend. @javybar
Do not let the days and circumstances steal your joy and happiness from your sadness and thinking. And practice the rituals of joy in all its colors, you will live only once in this life
Do not compare yourself to others Do everything as a great person
Thank you for your support and welcome to my humble page

thank you as well :)

Well written, so many situations and circumstanced can steal our happiness. Beautifull words

They are wonderful! :)

i completely agree with you..
Money is a means by which you can manage your life. You can use the money to provide convenience, for the opportunity to pay attention to important work, for training and further training. But if you live from wages to salaries, it means that money controls you.thanks to sharing for your best motivation ... i like your every thought...because its always perfect.i appreciate your post..keep it up my dear friend.i miss you... @ javybar

Thank you my friend, keep these wonderful words up :)

welcome. dear for your great thought and always support my work..but you not upvote my link.when no matter.i am always stayed with you.. best of luck and take care yourself..my dear best friend.. @javybar

Great post.Loved the amazing and motivating words.Yes, my friend we should not let anythings take away our smile or happiness although the things are most need.When we don't have anything then with the happiness and hard work you will get in future.Happiness is the key to success.Thanks for sharing it with us. @javybar

Very true, we should smile everyday and just go with the flow with great thought of the future :)

Yes, my friend surpassing all obstacles with the smile is success.

my dear friend @javybar,Happiness is a choice. You can choose to be happy. There's going to be stress in life, but it's your choice whether you let it affect you or not.thank's for sharing your .inspiring...

thank you very much! :)

welcome,my friend @javybar,Friends never leave,

Agree 100%!

Positive thinking is one of tips happy that can be directly you apply in daily life. With always try to keep the mind remain positive, we will avoid the burden of mind bad just shy of joy. How large and complex problems that your face, stay encounter with positive thoughts. That there is nothing wrong inside adverse events in your life. Everything is always keep wisdom. Stay how to your address the meaning and wisdom of any event positively.

Regards!

Love to read it. Michael Fox said "My recognition of my happiness, and the increase in direct proportion of the opposite ratio of my expectations."

wow very deep understanding here, thank you :)

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Write down five things that you love about your life, your work, your world. Be grateful.

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Remind yourself daily that what you are doing is special and your passion and focus is more than enough.
Just show up. Each day, one day at a time. Instead of focusing on what you aren’t doing. Praise everything you are doing. Because I’m certain it’s a lot.
Surround yourself with people that encourage you rather than cut you down – especially those whose own jealousies are reflected towards you.
Comparison and competition don’t get us any farther ahead; they just glue you down to where you are, and drive you deeper into your own crap. Step away to keep in touch with who you are, what you want and where you are going.

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Don’t let comparison steal your joy.

Lovely article to read, I appreciate it :)

True!

Although the human is God's creation the most perfect, in fact no perfect life for humans. There is definitely a deficiency. Precisely because it has shortage of that, as a human you need to reproduce sense be grateful. With the grateful, you will always feel enough. Won't burdened curiosity excessive. Will be kept also from the desire to greedy. Feels quite and always grateful will make your life quieter. With live quiet, then happiness going on around you.

Thanks my dear friend :)

excellent opinion, thank you my friend :)

Some days are just bad days, that's all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that's just the way it is!
I deeply agree with you @javybar, we often ruin our happiness with trivial things, a father scolded his son who will soak into the sea by reason still too early, sianak feel left out, disappointed, happiness we struggle with the preparation of our holidays we break in just a moment, enjoy all the circumstances in order to get happiness ,,
success always make you @javybar

Really great and wise words and you said absolutely right, most of us take lot of burden by overthinking on the aspect of various things and that in turn push you in an depressed state and where you want to make your life happy but due to these type of suppressed thoughts really you are moving towards suppressed state of mind. So it's really better to understand your voice of inner self because that is the true self and only your consciousness is eternal and this physical body will vanish, so don't break your world while running for the materialistic things. Thanks for sharing and keep posting great words. Wishing you an great day. Stay blessed. 🙂

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

wow thank you very much for this valuable content my friend. Keep it up! started following you :)

Welcome and thank you so much. 🙂

Sir you are right. Sometimes some external things like illness, disagreements, accident always try to steal our happiness and make our life like a hell. Mainly control our mind means good meditation can remove these external objects from our mind. We shouldn't care these illusion as we are always happy. Thanks sir @javybar for talking about our real life's problems and solutions.

I loved your opinion. Very straight to the point with meditation and realizing the illusion we live. I appreciate it very much :)

Well said indeed😍 that's why i live happy and cool whatever the situation and circumstance are😉. Enjoy every bit of life ☺don't let any bad moment to dwell upon on you

That's is why you are always a happy lady. Maybe you should come to NY and spread that happiness with us :)

very inspiring post. wonderful writing. great work man. thanks for @javybar

I appreciate it :)

You are right, we have control of all things, whether external or internal. If we learn to use these controls wisely, we will stay happy and our lives will be joyous. Alternatively if we start thinking negative and start panicking on little things, these will take away our happiness. You are doing a great job, spreading positive thoughts and telling others the ways to spend happy life. Keep it up bro.

Thank you very much, very grateful people like you can recognize and embrace the message we are intending to come across. Your comment is really right to the point, very well said my friend :) I totally appreciate it :)

Happiness is not in thing its just temporary its the joy moments we share with each others :)

I really agree with your thought @javybar. We are the one who control our happiness, something we dont like can easily happen, but we can accept it as the fact and keep our happiness stay inside us as a value which will influence our the others

This article fell right in my heart. Perhaps this is exactly what I've been looking for. I try very hard to appreciate every moment of my life. Thank you for helping me in this - sharing my wisdom. Good luck to you and Love.

Эта статья попала прямо мне в сердце. Возможно, это именно то, что я долго искал. Я очень стараюсь ценить каждый момент своей жизни. Спасибо, что Вы мне помогаете в этом – делясь своею мудростью. Удачи Вам и Любви.

Your words touch me deeply. I'm really happy these words can help in anything in your life. Keep it up my friend

Buenas noches @javybar , solo pude comentarle en este momento , pero no podia dejar pasar este dia sin decirle algo .
Bueno mi querido javybar, felicidad , es una palara tan linda , pero tan dificil de lograr .
Su post habla de lo que realmente debemos hacer , actitud positiva , disfrutar al maximo , los momentos de felicidad que tengamos , pero es que no debemos ignorar , que cada dia lleva su afan , tratemos de buscar lo mejor en todo , tal vez asi podremos ser mas felices .
Bueno a mi me hace feliz comentar en steemit y sobretodo a usted :)

Pues ya no habia oido de ud. Alegre de verla de nuevo. Gracias por la sabia opinion. Todos los dia deberiamos tratar de sonreir mas amenudo y muchas cosas vienen por si solas. :)

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices - today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.
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Thank you very much for your contribution, followed as well :)

Obviously agree with you man.. Our life is very short in our short life silly type of of things are happened all time... so, we should ignore those things & live with happy with all.☺

Happiness is a choice. You can choose to be happy. There's going to be stress in life, but it's your choice whether you let it affect you or not.

very true, thank you very much :)

yes, paying the taxes steals our happiness because we have to pay for it ... but we have to be positive and think that all this is very good.

That's why I got into cryptos to begin with :)

Well written, so many situations and circumstanced can steal our happiness. Well written

I appreciate it :)

Hey @javybar sir!
here is what I was talking about!

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Wow this is so awesome! You have done a great job man!

thanks again, of course i like it!

you can use it if you want!

Where did you get it? can the color be changed?

I made it!
Yes it can be changed

I really agree with you @javybar. do not let the little things ruin our happiness. keep smiling and happy even though we are in a very difficult situation. true happiness lies in gratitude. be grateful then we will be happy

I couldn't say it better than that, excellent, thank you very much :)

There is a saying "Dog barking caravan passes" means Happiness is ours, do not let the little things change happiness into sorrow.
This proverb is in accordance with your advice @javybar. Thanks

Totally agree, powerful words here. We create our reality everyday and we can decide what we can have or feel tomorrow. Thank you doe sharing :)

@javybar, Absolutely brilliant quote indeed great motivation post. Currently we all work hard for earn more wealth coz without money something couldn't find. Probably some peoples working more than 12 hours without thinking their health condition. If we can everything with managing sure you can find happiness. Finance, family management must important. Every free time spend with family. Then after they love to you and you forget your every problems via children happiness. I think my suggestions is better for controlling life.

I agree with you, people around us are more important than anything material things we can find as well as the happiness in them.

Couldn't agree more.
We shouldn't let random things affect us.
This way we can be happy

very true my friend, I started following you :)

Thank you :)

Indeed. I agree. We should never let things like these steal our happiness. With time everything goes on, what remains are the memories, the moments of happiness and joy. So be positive and enjoy your life

I cannot agree better with you. The secret of being happy is accepting where you are in life and making the most out of everyday.

Very inspiring and motivational post as always! If we take others' saying to our head we will suffer for nothing. When someone or something doesn't happen as you wanted it to be, don't panic. I have seen many people who put little things on their mind and gets upset. If they don't put attention to them and keep doing their work, they will feel better and will enjoy their work.

Very inspiring as well coming from you my friend. It is not that easy to focus for many, specially if there are emotions involved, but in the end, all things can overcome if we really try. Thank you very much :)

Some days are just bad days, that's all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that's just the way it is!

Very true, but that doesn't mean you are not gonna try to have better days. Things come and go and we remain along the way. Going with the flow while trying your best is a very good option. :)

Interesting post. Money may not not buy you happiness but what it will buy you is peace of mind that you don,t have to worry about bills and payments and you can go anywhere you like when you like. Without money you cant do that

You really have the main point of this post. You are very spot on what I meant. Money is necessary but should not control your life, you should control money instead with the best intentions possible :)

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Wonderful words my friend. Loved them. You are totally right, happiness comes from within and that is where we can find it :)

LIFE ONLY COMES AOUND ONCE, SO DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY, AND BE WITH WHOEVER MAKES YOU SMILE.

It's not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness. There are so many beautiful reasons to be happy. The key to being happy is knowing you have the power to choose what to accept and what to let go. They secret of being happy is accepting where you are in life and making the most out of everyday. Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. your happiness will not come to you. It canonly come from you. Happiness is not a goal its a by-product. :)

There is not cosmetic for beauty like happiness. Life is som much better where you are laughing. Keep laughing!

Very nice :) Thank you for sharing

Happiness giving most inspiration to our life. If happiness our life, don't have any problems, life can go further easily. So better way to search happiness. Most of things has to search. Thanks it share @javybar.

LOvely message my friend, Thank you for sharing :)

Really happiness is very important in our life because happiness come very rarely although we laugh everyday but happyness is different

Agree :), thanks

I completely agree with you. You can not become attached to things, to money.
Money is a means by which you can manage your life. You can use the money to provide convenience, for the opportunity to pay attention to important work, for training and further training. But if you live from wages to salaries, it means that money controls you.

Very true, it is important to have money, but not let it control you at all. Money is not bad, but the attachment to it, it is. Picture abundance in your life instead of money. :)

I deeply agree with you @javybar, we often ruin our happiness with trivial things, a father scolded his son who will soak into the sea by reason still too early, sianak feel left out, disappointed, happiness we struggle with the preparation of our holidays we break in just a moment, enjoy all the circumstances in order to get happiness ,,
success always make you @javybar

This is much needed to understand that happiness should be constant thing whatever he situation may be, but we make our life complicated because of minor things.

If you are not satisfied where you are, take it slowly and don't punish yourself for little things.

Thanks lot Javy Bro for showing the folk right way to enjoy their life. :)

It is a pleasure my friend, I appreciate your contribution :)

the more satisfied you will be with what you have the more happy you will be
dissatisfaction will lead towards destruction

very well said :)

Thanks for inspiring me and all steem users who following you.

It is a pleasure my friend :) You are very welcome.

to get great things must be by keeping things small, so on happiness, enjoy the slightest happiness in our lives in order to gain greater happiness

very well said my friend :)

Happiness is heart repairing things

yeah, Don't focus on little things, and don't let them destroy your happiness!
do you know what the real happiness is?
real happiness is not in money, real happiness is not in luxury life.
real happiness is not in cars.

Real happiness is in helping others!
you will find real happiness when you help someone who needs your help :)

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  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Yes you are right. You can not allow yourself to become attached to things.
The world is full of all rubbish. Do not let trash block the path to something important. If you start to get attached to things, you stop managing your life. Ask yourself the question: if you, in order to catch up with your dream, tomorrow will have to drop 90% of the acquired, you can easily do it? If you hesitate, then perhaps you are unable to control your life because of your weakness, like attachment to things.

Sometimes people ask me what I think is more important, to be rich or to be happy. Most of the time obviously the expected answer is "to be happy", and I agree with that, but I think the more interesting question would be: "What makes us happy?"
The answer to this question may strongly vary from person to person. In my case being happy means also to be free and independent, to decide myself when to sleep, when to wake up, when, where, how long and if at all to work, also where I want to live ... to be able to decide all these things myself, as well as living independently from exterior constraints, it is necessary to have enough financial resources ...

I am not one of the persons who like to be wealthy in order to live a life of luxury, I don't want to be rich just because of being rich, but nevertheless I would like to be rich because I want to be free ...

Well if that's the case, then is there some magical number we can all aim for after which diminishing returns in general contentment really start to kick in? 

If at all such a "magical number" exists, one has to consider the different costs of livings in the different parts of the world as well ...

This assumed amount of money (let's say the mentioned $75,000 a year in a country like the USA) would fulfill all material needs. So maybe for most people it wouldn't increase happiness significantly to get even more money. However even if this percentile is statistically correct, it need not to be accurate for every single individual. For example it would not be enough to live as free as I described above, which for me personally is a key factor of being happy.

to get great things must be by keeping things small,my dear friend @javybar,
Well written, so many situations and circumstanced can steal our happiness.thans for share,

thank's for sharing your .inspiring...

great to share

nice content

nice article

wow very excellent post Thanks for sharing i will done upvote..

yes,I think enjoy in life all time.

Very true live life with big heart 👌👍.

Happiness is a beautiful aspect of life. I think we should not let puny things.
Thanks a lot for sharing such a valuable post

Well written, so many situations and circumstanced can steal our happiness. Well written

great!!
this post is really helpful

its very excellent post and i agree with you

great!!
this post is really helpful

After all that is life ,we all have ups & down.

Appreciate your suggestions buddy !

This is a amazing post and great work..i really love steemit..thanks for share this post keep up it..so i just @resteem and #upvote done @javybar

Hi my friend. I like your photography post. I like steemit bitcoin news about. Thanks for so much.

thank's for sharing your .inspiring...

great to share

to get great things must be by keeping things small, so on happiness, enjoy the slightest happiness in our lives in order to gain greater happiness..i like steemit

You say right sir....