Why are you always worried? Look at me, how easy I am. Contentment is always happy.
In real life, many people often take "follow the trend" as the motto, stay away from the world, hope that they are stable, hope that others will not disturb, and live and work in peace. Ask them why, and the answer is "why?" Yes, yes, good. "
The word "go with the flow" seems to be an attitude to life. This so-called "attitude" is divided into two types: positive attitude and negative attitude. In fact, it is equivalent to two different values and lifestyles. So, what kind of attitude is "following the trend"?
Different people have different answers. In my opinion, there is a positive side, but the negative side dominates, because this is the essence of "satisfaction" and "inaction."
Let's start on the positive side.
When people see that their goals are difficult to achieve, they can use it to suppress unrealistic desires. When people lack the ability to adapt and innovate, it can be used as the "AQ Spiritual Victory Method" to resolve internal conflicts, achieve psychological balance, and ease the pain caused by dissatisfaction. Such people will not worry about themselves, nor will they torture themselves.
In the case of fierce competition, it can also make some people use this as a "reason" to withdraw from competition, thereby reducing some interpersonal conflicts. Others will not provoke or seek trouble because they see that they will not pose a threat to their own interests.
Therefore, "follow the trend" is not an absolute denial.
However, its negative impact should not be underestimated.
The happiness of life is mainly reflected in the following aspects, which fully reflects its negative effects.
For example, for members of a society or group, if its members lack a competitive psychology, have no higher requirements for life and society, and satisfy the status quo, satisfy the status quo or sense of satisfaction, how can a society exist? How does a society develop? China is a civilized country, but its overall development is relatively slow. why? The people of our country have what they have, which is so satisfying. In our society, contented people are not too few, but too many.
For a nation, if its members adopt such a happy way, "the present is better than the past", "contentment", "complacency", and "humility", how can a positive national cultural psychological environment be formed? How to develop and improve the quality of the whole nation?
For a specific individual, if their mentality is "small and rich sense of security", if they are not enough, they will not have enough motivation to continue upward, they will not have enough courage to compete with others, and they will not be aggressive enough. Without a bold creative spirit, how did this person's intelligence develop?
Those who regard themselves as the creed of life are actually stifling the possibility of exerting your talents. At the current level of economic development in my country, "comfortable with the status quo" means "comfortable with the status quo" and "blind dependence." The common development of the country and the family does more harm than good.
In most people's minds, "follow the trend" seems to mean "satisfied with what you have." In fact, this is a misunderstanding. "Follow the trend" is a detailed analysis of the status quo, and "contentment" is another topic. The two are completely incommensurable.
People who pay attention to the continuous improvement of personality will always have infinite motivation. Such people never rest assured