Stop Worrying About What Others Say Or Do!

in happiness •  4 years ago 

It's always a good idea to stop worrying about what others say or do, or what they think of you, but the funny thing is that no one ever says "What Others Say Or Do! Of course it's just what they say and do.





Sure, we can read what other people are thinking and saying about us and we can all agree to disagree about almost anything. But then again, we have to remember that we're not talking to the person who said it - we're talking to each other. We should be able to feel comfortable that what we've said or done, we can expect to hear it said and/or done by someone else. You know, when in our mind we are in a social situation, so it's understandable that we would be critical.

It's true that we shouldn't put too much weight on what other people say or do, because it may be true that the other person is only criticizing us for a particular reason. We can't put the blame on another person for something that we have done wrong, for example. We also can't put a whole lot of stress on what someone else has said or done about us. So, we should be able to be aware of what other people say or do, and that we should not let those things affect our opinion of ourselves. No matter what anyone else thinks of us.



One thing we should all try to remember is that "what others say or do" is just that - an opinion. No matter how intelligent, nice, or sweet we think we are, that is not going to give anyone any reason to criticize us or judge us. Nobody will take us down, because we shouldn't take ourselves down.

Remember also that every single person out there in the world (we might not all agree with each other, but that's what makes the world great) has a different opinion, and everybody has different reasons for what they think. There are so many people in the world - just because we don't like one another, it doesn't mean that we all hate each other. All we really need to do is find that common ground. That's what I call real friendship - getting along with everyone and just having fun.



For instance, I am happy to see new things come out in the world. I find myself more excited every time I see something new and discover something new, and I guess that's what we want, isn't it? What we want to do is find the things that we love, and the things that we think that we should love, and then we will be truly happy and content. And I find that the truth is that most people aren't even aware of the things that they are doing that is making them happy, or the things that they are doing that makes them miserable.

Then there's the fact that it is never too late to change things that we think we should be doing. If you are complaining about everything that is wrong with the world, it would probably take you quite a long time to change your thinking about things. So if we want to have a better world and live in a better world, we need to always look at what we can do to change things. I don't know about you, but I would rather live in a world that is beautiful, peaceful, and free than one that's full of tension and conflict.

So in conclusion, we shouldn't worry about what others say or do. We should remember that it is always right to be what we think is right, and that people have different opinions - everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

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