There was this one time a former colleague knew that I was finally single so he started texting me and I was like oh hello there old friend so he invited me to hangout with him and my other colleagues so I was like oh cool I’ve never been outside in a long time cos I got super depressed and lost connections with some friends so yeah after my gym we could.
A little backstory: He knows I am some one-of-the-boys type so he knows I’m always cool with hanging out with guys often. Though I hang out with girls too or with genderless or gay or whatever your gender is. We were also able to hang out quite a few times before, too.
So after the Muay Thai session at the gym, I went to see them and talk to them. Was nice seeing friends again after my depressive months. We were just talking normally. No clues that I was interested romantically or some shit.
After that, this guy was still texting me nonstop and was insisting I take the painting he made for me. He wanted me to pick it up the very next day and I refused because I need to be with my best friend at that time. He started becoming an asshole, saying if you don’t pick this up I will throw this at the sea or burn it. Well of course I just said Just burn it I don’t give a fuck because what’s up with the attitude?
Then he started saying things like I really like you and that Our love will last forever or something like that I don’t remember much. Well I was weirded out because why the fuck did he think I was interested in him when it was literally fucking obvious I just wanted a friend???
I told him to get the fuck off cos I I’m not interested and blocked him.
Days after that, while I was training at the gym, this fucker texted me using his friend’s account I’m outside the gym like how the fuck did he know I was at the gym and that this was the gym I go to? Of course I got paranoid cos he stalking me??? He became a threat to my security so I called my friend to pick me up cos who knows what this meth addict might do.
So what makes the guys think we are interested in them just because we talk to them? Didn’t you even know how to read body languages? Did we even show some signs that we might like you? If not, then she not interested. Bruh get over yourself.
And there’s another guy I talked to the other week and is now saying I’m interesting? Okay wait, dude, I literally talked to you for 5 minutes and no I’m not interested in anything so stop pushing it. How bold of some guys to assume we want some of their dicks when all we did was to talk to them? We’re not even talking about our personal life in our conversations and next thing we know they be texting cos they think we want some free taste of their small dicks.
Dudes. We girls can talk to the opposite sex without wanting to kiss them. Who said we can only hang out with fellow girls and if we hang out with guys it automatically means we want some of their foreskins? I hate how they can’t even read body languages. Learn to read bro. It’s easy. Stop assuming we like you just because we talked to you.
Stop assuming we like you just because we talked to you
Stop assuming we like you just because we talked to you
Seriously if you didn’t get it, you lack some brain cells needed to comprehend basic shit
Also, no means no.
Get the fuck off literally means get the fuck off like geez these guys just afraid of rejections.
It all boils down to evolutionary psychology and how men and women have evolved with pretty much opposite mating strategies. You know, men "throwing their seeds everywhere", whereas women have to be careful with sexual intercourse because it can be highly costly to them - not as much anynore of course because of birth control, however, the old evolutionary mechanisms are still there. Basically, men are like smoke detectors: more false positives than real positives. But if even 1 in a 100 proves to be right, well, it is a beneficiary trait - in evolutionary terms, and will move on to the next generation. Now, this doesn't mean it justifies any shitty behavior from your friends who are clearly very immature and can't just talk these things out in a civilized manner.
People might not like what I'm saying here, especially amongst hyper-progressive climate where biological gender is a social construct, but these things must be understood so that genders can reach harmony, otherwise these misunderstandings keep happening without anyone understanding why, thinking that the opposite representatives are just assholes for the sake of it.
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:O woah that detailed explanation. That makes sense! Not all men do that though, but most desperates that I know do. I have also read in a study before that men are more aggressive with decision-making, even though there's small chance of winning: whereas women tend to be very careful, slowly but surely. This applies to decision-making in general and not just in love. You just reminded me of what I've studied before that I forgot now lol thank you for that explanation! :D
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Yeah, that unfortunately happens sometimes when other attraction attempts have failed.
I read a whole book about that stuff – it was really interesting! You're welcome :D
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Maybe it's you who is sexualizing things. Maybe they are a bit obsessed with you and act stupidly because they want to be with you and don't know how to get there. Men have been taught that there are "strategies" to approach girls, that it is our job to be straight forward with our intentions and that girls like that.
Anyway, I'm sure those guys are just as damaged as anyone from the education they received and I hope they find the path into loving themselves. As for you, I wish you strength and confidence to overcome these situations, as well as the empathy to shine a light on those who need to learn and evolve.
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I don’t assume unless they tell me their intentions, so yah. I dont think their strategies work tho lol. It’s terrible, hope someday theyll learn. Thank you! I’m just annoyed with how often this happens not only to me but to others as well. But I’ll try to improve and control myself as well xD
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Good luck 😂
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Why?!
I think the cashier likes me - she smiles every time i go to shop. )
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Uhm no
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That actually just sounds like he was going a bit nutso. Possibly overtaken by hormones. He probably wasn't thinking straight.
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Yeah true. And this rant is probably just the result of me being scared that it’ll happen again 🤣
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It probably will. Maybe next time you'll be able to recognize what's happening and head it off before they go super crazy.
Or get a restraining order. XD
Sorry.
People are more crazy than most people realize.
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on the bright side, its a good opportunity to test out your muay thai skills though.. lol
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While some of the comments here delve into the deeper possible root cause of those actions, I just love the language. 😂😂😂
I love how honest you are with those trash. I might not use those languages you use, but I'm amused and amazed by this post. Keep em' coming! Hahahaha
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Hahaha I do this once in a while when I've had enough. lol
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