The world is a place where Nature is fixed and neutral from the day it has come into existence; goodness and badness of Nature do not exist. It is all about how we perceive our world. Similarly, the problems do not even exist, but we have named different situations differently. For example, to some people, a situation might be perceived as an annoying one, to which they call it a problem. Whereas, to some people, that particular situation might be perceived as a happier one, which indicates the Nature and the situation was the same but differently judged by two different thoughts. For instance, marrying a girl can be a happy moment for a man who loves that girl, and to the girl who loves another person can be a problem and grief. So this is us who allocate names to Nature.
However, Nature doesn’t harm humanity; instead, we harm Nature by our actions which indirectly affect us because results follow moves in the world. Some common sayings are that time will heal the wounds, this shall pass, and many others. But time does not play a more critical role than the subconscious mind. It is not time that heals us. But, the subconscious mind agrees to the situation that accepts moving ahead, which intends to forget that situation previously assumed as a problematic one.
Thus, it is our mind and the quality of its forgetfulness which ultimately heal us. Yet, some people live their entire life in pain and grief; why? Because they view all the Nature in a problem that is the derivations of their mind, they are stuck and stubborn Nature. Besides, sometimes we say the problem is resolved; why? Because the required actions were taken which suit the Nature and situation. Like a lock can only be opened with its specialized key. Similarly, the whole universe is locked, and for discovering, each part of it shall be unlocked by the required efforts.
In a nutshell, problems fade themselves, as if a person is driving a car, and he divides the distance into two phases; one which is covered and left behind, second which has to be covered, at the front. The covered distance gradually fades from which the driver has lifted his focus and eventually forgotten. The problems also disappear likewise, and the uncovered length is viewed like a problem that seems bigger from far. But when it reaches towards you, it becomes smaller and fades like the rest of the way. Thus, problems themselves do not exist, but we perceive things differently; the liking situation is a happy one and the disliking case; a problem. The essential thing is to build a friendship with Nature and learn to flow with Nature.
Asad Zarawar Khan