You have your approach and I have mine. I'm trying my best not to tell others how they need to be. They will do them and figure out if it works or doesn't for them.
When I invest time to respond to people as I do, it's usually not about that person I'm responding to. It's about all the others who will read what is posted and haven't made up their minds yet. You and I have different approaches, and I'm okay with that.