The best way to conquer middle-aged women: psychological distance effect

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In the world of emotions, men are always trapped in their inability to guess a woman's heart, often feel that their thoughts are complicated, their emotional expression is also very vague, and they don't know how to conquer a woman.

In fact, it's really hard to see through a middle-aged woman. They often have a lot of experience and even have had failed relationships. So when it comes to hiding their inner emotions, they are more hidden and it is harder to see through themselves. .Mind.

Of course, young women are easy to understand. Although they are not very good at expressing their feelings, the appearance of their love and dislike is still very obvious, a little attention to the details can be seen very carefully, so they are also very attractive. Easy, no skill required at all.

However, it is not that simple to face a middle aged woman, only by using a few skills and strategies we can look into the woman's heart and achieve total conquest.

In general, the best way to conquer middle-aged women: the effect of psychological distance.

In the emotional world, how to interpret the effects of psychological distance? In fact, the most critical thing is to "keep your distance", both psychologically and in real life, to maintain a relationship that is not far or close.

Keep it close

We have also said before that the experience of a middle-aged woman is already very rich. If you start stalking as soon as you show up, or if you don't pay off enough genuine emotions, you won't be able to pick up on them. heart.

Because according to him, people who stalk when they appear are not in a hurry for what is called love, but to get some kind of satisfaction for themselves. Those who think they are faking it are really early in your hypocrisy too. It was known, so both methods were wrong.

Therefore, use the "psychological distancing effect" to maintain close proximity to a middle-aged woman, who can express your emotions to the other party, and can also generate enough attraction to make her feel unconscious. You have a kind of curiosity, even an active approach.

For middle-aged women, they also really want to meet their own love, but they don't want to choose to do so, otherwise they will not be single at this stage of life, so they pay more attention to each other's appearance. other.

At present, a man can take the initiative to keep his distance, it is easy to make middle-aged women feel curious, and gradually form a good impression, and then slowly approach, can naturally succeed in conquering middle-aged women.

To conquer middle-aged women, we must learn to "combine density"

As the saying goes: "Distance produces beauty", this phrase applies not only to love, but it can have a similar effect in the process of pursuing someone.

In the process of chasing middle-aged women, apart from keeping your distance, you can also use the "combination density" method. As the name suggests, sparseness is a kind of deliberate detachment, and closeness is a kind of intimacy, relationship.

Imagine, when you used the notion of proximity or proximity to make a middle-aged woman feel comfortable with you, how would you proceed to the next step? At this point, "density and density" comes in handy, giving the woman a feeling of isolation upon being close, so she will gradually rely on you to develop into a kind of deep love.

If you want each other's lovemaking to develop faster, then you have to let him move into your embrace one step at a time, instead of actively chasing and waiting forever. In the end, love can work, but it must be "closed." Combine it.

It is undeniable that sincerity is indispensable in any relationship. Only on this basis and applying some of our skills can truly captivate middle aged women.

Sometimes, feelings don't mean that you will have them if you want to, or that you can be together if you have a good impression of each other, but you need to work hard and know how to capture each other, especially by studying. using the "psychological distance effect". Conquer women well.

Of course, what we're talking about isn't all ownership, but the ability to make the other party fall deeply in love with you, and can never leave you. For middle-aged women, conquering is a kind of pleasure, a curiosity for distance, and the hope that a combination of density generates.

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