Readers often say that the good uncle was schizophrenic and had written so many articles, sometimes talking about things, and sometimes talking about things, sometimes conflicting.
For example, I've written articles criticizing wolf culture, and I've also written articles about doing well at work.
I wrote about the resignation of a very ill garment employee the day before yesterday. I pointed out that many bosses talk to you about feelings and loyalty, but they just want to hold you back and let you sell the labor for a low price.
Some readers pointed out that I also shared an article a while ago, saying that there shouldn't be a worker mentality ...
The reader asks, which side am I on?
I know what they mean. It seems I was scolding the boss while persuading you to work hard. This seems contradictory.
Is it true? Actually, you work for the boss, but you also work for yourself at the same time.
You can't just work hard just because the other party is bad.
You seem to be taking advantage of the boss, but it turns out that you are consuming your own youth as well. May I ask who has lost more for you or the boss?
I know that in this matter, many people cannot accept it from the bottom of their hearts.
A distant relative of mine, a young man, also works in Garments.
Several years ago, he talked to me and always said that the boss was too bad, so he wanted to sabotage the boss.
As an elder, I scolded him, and I asked him, because you think his boss is bad, why don't you change jobs.
He didn't answer, actually I knew he didn't have the capital to change jobs.
I asked him again, is it true that he can't learn anything in his current job?
He thought for a moment and said that he could still learn something.
I said, great, you will be the boss and give you money to come to this company to learn a lot of things. When you're almost done, you can kick it again. This is the best revenge.
This kid completely changed his mind, even took the initiative to do the job, became the boss's right hand man.
The industry in which they are involved is specialized equipment inspection, and the field is not large, and soon other companies will pay high salaries to excavate it.
Then, when I met again, I said, look, this rate of retribution is high, right?
He said, "Uncle, don't, don't say that, in fact, the boss was nice enough to me later ...
I said, of course, you are valuable, of course he could not be worse than you.
Why am I talking about this topic?
Since the garment employees who were seriously ill were too affected by the resignation incident, this would inevitably cause everyone to condemn the company's unfair behavior.
At the same time, I am also very worried that the orientation of public opinion will be corrected, making you think that the boss is all bad guys and the company is exploiting, so you get mixed up.
I hope you'll look at this separately rather than rotating them together.
Hence, some suggestions are also given.
First of all, you need to assess whether the existing job is developing, it is uncomfortable or not.
You need to look at the present from a 10-year perspective over time, to judge if things will get you in the future.
You work for your boss, but you work for yourself, after all.
Second, if this job requires you to work overtime every day, then I advise you not to.
Of course overtime work is a common thing at work. Uncle boss used to work overtime, but my personal tolerance is not more than 2 times a week.
Because after all, work is for life, not the other way around.
At the same time, a job based on the sacrifice of health is not worthy of prospecting. Once you are over 40, you will know what to expect.
Finally, if you really hate your boss, the best way to reciprocate is not to take the stage down, or sit back and enjoy the benefits and not work, but rack your brain to learn some of the essence, and then leave the beautiful. back for him ... ..