Hi @hive-106183, thanks for creating something like this. Thanks for the readers and supporters. I'm glad to be part of this family.
Uncles are gift of jubilee. If you have good uncles, you will understand the uniqueness of it. But if you don't have, you will face a repugnant.
My relationship with my uncle is:
Smooth
Sweet
Sustainable
Civilized
I don't think as of now, there's no issue between me and my uncle. He is my favourite when it comes to uncle titleship. I can't find any help and run to a stranger; my uncle remains the most handsome man with gear-giving heart.
I could remember very vividly when I was tried with storms; the hit of the storms almost crashed on me. Yes, my parents are capable of handling the storms. However, by that time, things were not friendly with them and so, the only picture to fall back to was my uncle.
I had the best ever-changing support from him. I know there are heart-breaking uncles out there who have caused pains to some of our Steemians. Mostly in the case of sexual affairs. But that has not been my kind of uncle—smooth, sweet, sustainable, and civilized.
Yes! From the rank of family hierarchies. I'm also an uncle to my smaller beings. No! From my observation, I discover that most brothers are staring at your progression. And so, if there's no progression; they will always want to insult you, paint you with darks all because you haven't attained to their wishes.
Secondly, when it happens that you're soft-hearted; they will always want to joke with it. I grew up in a family where my brothers are mostly admirers of who you are. If you aren't anything, you'll be undermined. Respect and other blessings of humanity won't be given.
The one who gives emotional support.
As discussed above, irrespective of how insultive my brothers are to me. Irrespective of how people undermine my personality, I still offer them emotional support. Love without genuine emotion is counterfeit. This application of love revolves round:
i-expression: your shape of expression must be legitible. If you're not confidant in your speeches and mannerism, your kid brothers will instead bounce on you roughly.
i-motivated: always be moved by what you receive inside of you. Yes! Your brothers may not be swift to disclose certain informations to you based on who you are. But if you're motivated, you'll be distinctively guided to manage their behaviours.
i-oppositional: As an uncle, this is part of the display you must portray. An highly-i-oppositional-behaviour. Not willing to dance to their momentum. Even the Bible said: when you are hurt by one side of the face, turn the other side. If you're hurt by your brothers, as an emotional uncle, be oppositional in your actions, don't allow their reflects to affect your actions. Continue caring, loving and been generous.
i-technical: This is the reason why some people think most uncles are bad. I'm not trying to support any of them which display such amputating character. To be highly technical in your operation simply calls for smartness. There are brothers and sisters that may not respect your personality and still requires financial support from you. Be technical even in your emotion with them.
i-independent: As an uncle, the latest see-finish is been dependent. If you're highly independent, there's an 100% Blessing attach to your degree.
i-objective: simplicity is everybody's dream. An harsh uncle will hardly gain voice in a home irrespective of his influence. Be simple and highly objective.
i-notion: As an uncle or an uncle aspirant, work on your notion. You need to see your brothers or sisters as the forthcoming billionaires. If you're not seeing, then begin to change your notion. Be highly noted about the personality of the people you expect blessings from.
Emotion
No. I don't have any anecdotes with my nephews. The truth is that, I haven't been around this category of persons for a period of time now. So, I've been in diaspora fetching money for their survival.
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