Many people seek justification by saying that the condition that happened to him at this time was his choice of life. Those who are not married, for example, when asked why or when, said that it was their choice, to prioritize their career first or something else, even though their hearts were a mess. Feel annoyed with those who ask, or feel jealous about it when his friends get ahead of him.
Whereas it should be, we don't need to lie to ourselves with many reasons as well as justifications to cover up our limitations. Because whatever form it takes, to whomever we do it, lies are always troublesome in the end. Including lying to yourself which will be troublesome. Now, things like that are not life choices. But we have to overcome limitations by first accepting, then fixing them.