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Men are leaders for women.

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What is meant by man is a leader for women is a man who protects, looks after, is sufficient and strengthens. Not authority or power.

Even if a husband has power over his wife, it turns out that what is meant by power here does not mean that he can arbitrarily and arbitrarily. But the husband has the power to advise, direct, and also make decisions for his wife and family to remain in goodness. How God really values ​​women, including their status as a wife.

How many out there, a messy household because a husband misunderstands the meaning of this qowwam. Instead, it made him an even more wrong excuse to demand things from his wife. Want to be served, want all her demands to be fulfilled, want all her requests to be obeyed, demand rights regardless of how well she has fulfilled her obligations as a husband.

On the other hand, there are also many wives whose personalities do not develop after marriage and marriage. Because in addition to being preoccupied with household matters, lack of self-actualization, husbands also do not fulfill the rights of wives to develop personality, knowledge is also the competence that their wives need to have. In fact, it is the wife's right, including the husband's obligation as a leader for his wife.