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Speaking of "cheating", I'm sure there are a lot of people who really hate it. Nobody wants to let their marriage look like this, let alone meet someone who doesn't love themselves.
However, life is full of many unknown attributes. Not that it won't happen if you don't want to. Just like after someone betrayed your feelings, even though you were reluctant, facts have happened. Relationships have deteriorated, and life will change accordingly.
Of course, once most of the affair was exposed, the end result could only be the end. After all, such feelings couldn't help but be tested. As to whether life can return to peace, it depends on the good fortune of each other.
However, after the affair was over, did a man no longer miss his girlfriend? Of course they would, but right now they don't dare to actively contact each other. What's more, the pain and pain caused by infidelity is still there. Right now, the contact was definitely looking for trouble.
In general, after an extramarital affair is over, a man misses his girlfriend very much and will not take the initiative to contact him.
Sad over the alcohol
How could I not think about it? Especially for a man who was already moved by his true feelings, it would be very painful to have crazy thoughts, and he was also struggling so much, he wanted to contact but knew it was impossible.
But the two have separated, and they have chosen to return to the family. Even if they miss each other, they can't take the initiative to contact each other, so they'll fall into trouble. When it is truly unbearable, they can only choose to use alcohol to dissolve their grief.
When you find that when a man walks out of a marriage, his whole person seems to have changed. He used to work and live with a good spirit, but suddenly he became addicted to alcohol, and he was not motivated to work and live. In fact, trapped by feelings on the outside, and difficult to get out of the totality.
Although it is said that "get rid of sorrow and sorrow with wine", it is also good for being able to get forgetfulness and short-term happiness. Maybe after all this time, you will really forget about it. After all, the love you can't get will hurt a lot of people if you work hard. It's better to cherish it over the years and gradually forget about it.
Silent attention
I really like someone because I hope other people will have a good life. Since the affair is over, and the attachments will lose their meaning, it's better to perfect the other person. Even though I will be very painful, at least my love is not so selfish.
It's natural to have crazy thoughts about lovers, but each other has returned to normal life. It's not right to be actively interfering, so you can only choose to watch the other party secretly, such as looking at each other's circle of party mates, who often appear in him Look at places from afar and so on, that can only be like that.
Some feelings are destined not to be together, which is a kind of destiny and there is no separation. It doesn't matter whether you are unwilling or not, no matter how attached you are, it has lost its meaning. Only when you are freed from silent attention is the wisest choice.
Humans naturally understand this truth, and after all, they must learn not to intrude. For the thoughts and love in their hearts, they may as well bury them in their hearts and gradually fade under the consumption of time.
Secretly hurt
In the face of a relationship, who can let it go? At first, he even blocked his family for this, but in the end, he had to face the end of the affair, no one could miss it.
Cuteness is only meant to be a part of life, not to mention that the affair itself shouldn't exist, so after finally getting out of it, it's only natural that you won't try to come back in again, even if you're crazy missing someone else, you have to calm down and push yourself to choose lying down.
Sure, the process will definitely be very painful, but men can only choose to secretly hurt themselves, both for their own future, for family harmony and happiness, sometimes men just have to take responsibility for themselves, take some things away. , and take care of them. Lost and love is swallowed up into the stomach.
Return to the family on time, improve relations with the wife, or be prepared to start a new life. In short, try to explain to yourself and life rather than continue to live in confusion.
last
Sooner or later, after someone falls into extramarital affairs, you will have to pay the price. Whether it is to continue burying your inner love in pain, or to disperse your wife, is your choice. If you do. don't choose to commit adultery, you have no coincidence. Everything is reversible, but when you take this step, you need to "eat your own fruit."