Everyone will experience birth, old age, disease, and death. This is the usual natural imagination, especially the process of getting old. Although we can't prevent it, we can make some preparations in advance to avoid getting old and helpless. .
There are some people who don't know about this, and they always feel that their body is fine, but the marks on their faces are getting more obvious. attitude, but these are not responsible for themselves. Human performance.
One of my aunts downstairs was very excited when she was young, but she experienced unimaginable sadness when she was old. The aunt was widowed in her early years and worked hard to raise her son to adulthood. When she reached adulthood from marriage, she took out all of her savings. I bought a house and a car for my son, and then lived with him.
With age, the aunt can do less and less for her son, and gradually begins to be rejected by her daughter-in-law, but she does not make any preparations for her old age, and her life becomes increasingly bleak.
It is not uncommon for parents to dedicate everything to their children, but few parents know how to save themselves, and it is inevitable that they will fall into a gloomy life at night. Therefore, in order to avoid the gloomy night scene in old age, these three objects had to be held in his hands.
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People must have a warm harbor in their old age
What is warm port? In fact, it belongs to the house itself. You can live with the children, but don't forget to prepare a place for yourself. This is your exclusive harbor.
Often times, parents will give all of their savings to their children, but can this be exchanged for happy old age? If your waste heat runs out and there is no way to help, it will undoubtedly become a burden to their lives.
But what if you have your own warm port? This is your resting place. When you get kicked out of the house, you won't end up on the streets. You can also gather the children from time to time to strengthen ties between family members. Better than getting kicked. better.
For the elderly, a house is not only a place to live, but also a place for sustaining the soul. Nowadays, it is very important to have a warm port of your own. Don't give everything to your children, at least leave the living quarters to yourself, otherwise it will be difficult to avoid the lonely night scene.
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People should save enough pension money in their old age
After someone is old, money is very light, but if you want to have life security, sufficient pension is one of the conditions that is needed.
As everyone knows, most elderly people don't have that kind of concept of money, and they always face it with a "there is a way for the car to reach the mountain" attitude, but when they really can't walk, and the kids don't care about you. At that time, life will inevitably be even more lonely.
When I was young, I didn't have money to raise myself, at that time I still had energy to waste, but what if I am old? If you want to make money, you won't be able to do what you want. If you don't leave enough pension money for yourself, you won't even get sick, so you can talk about basic material safety.
More importantly, the pressure that young people need to face today is too great, if they don't leave enough pension funds, and then add to the burden on children, it will only overwhelm them.
Therefore, towards the end of life a person must prepare a pension fund in advance to meet the emergency needs of life. Don't feel like it doesn't matter, when you really need money but can't get it, life is sure to get bleaker.
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People must maintain a healthy body in old age
What is the most important thing in a person's life? This is nothing more than keeping the body healthy. After a person is old, without health, there will naturally be no happy life, and only sadness greets itself.
When you are young, not paying attention to your own body will inevitably bring hidden dangers to your health in later years. It may not be a problem then, but when you get really old, you'll only regret it. So, while you still have the energy to exercise, don't forget to live a healthy life.
What do people fight when they get old? In fact, to fight for health, be it mental or physical health, you have to do your best to take care of it, gradually cultivate some healthy habits, and you will be happier in the future.
People will understand how important health is in the following years, if you have never taken care of your body before, you will always be sick all the time, which will not only affect your family life, but also consume your own body.
Therefore, if you can live a healthy life welcoming every part of your life, maintain a good attitude to welcome the good old days.
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Emotional message:
Life cannot avoid the end, life cannot avoid twilight, but old age can avoid the destruction of the night view.
In old age, people left the warm harbor to themselves, so that they would not live on the streets; people in old age, leaving enough pension money for themselves, so as not to worry about money; people in old age, leave a healthy body, welcome to a healthy and happy life.
When parents, stop worrying about their children and take care of yourself, so that children can feel calm, not worry about trivial things, learn to have healthy habits, and plan for life.