"Don't give up", "Don't lose hope", "Keep on fighting" .... all these are statements which have been uttered by us and heard from other many times.
It's quite simple and easy to say it to someone; especially when you aren't in the position of the person because it's impossible to put yourself in the real situation of someone.
We often say it to people just because we feel it's nice to do that when a person is despondent. We don't really mean it most of the time.
"Hey bro, don't give up", just like that; nothing more.
However, only get to understand the real impact of these words when we get into a similar tough situation.
We understand how it actually feels when we are down and someone says "Don't give up" to us and it solely depends on us to heed to it or not.
Possibly, there are things happening in your life right now that might make you want to give up this life. It could be loss or relatives, relationships, jobs and all that; we should know however that all these pains and agony don't actually last all the time. They wont always be there.
Everything has it's season; there are times we feel elated all the time so with this in mind we can know that since these blissful moments don't last, it's the same with the hardships that we face everyday.
There are some problems we can work our ways out of with the help of God, others also need the intervention of God and God alone.
Don't give up this life, don't give up on your family, don't give up.on your job search, don't give up on your family or your love life, and don't give up on yourself.
God loves each and everyone of us and all He wants is for us to regard him and exalt Him. He wants us to put it in our minds always that He is the only one who can really help up.
Without God in your life, giving up will be a very simple thing to do. You will give everything up and always end up destructed.
All I want you to understand is, the next time someone tells you "Don't give up" whether out of affection, wherever he means it or not, take that statement at heart, reflect on it and always know that nothing in our lives will last and the good days will always come.
And it might even be that God is testing you, who knows?🤷🏾♂️ God loves people who keep on fighting for what they want, if you do that, you'll always get the help you need.
Galatians 6:9
Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Thanks for stopping by and may God be with us all.💓
If there is one thing I have learned, it is that no two situations are ever the same (because no two lives are alike). I will explain it with an example:
Two ladies had a latest generation iPhone (same phone), both were crossing the same corner at the same time when the same criminal intercepted them and took both of their phones. So far it seems to be the same situation (unquestionably it is the same event and the same material loss that could also apply to the emotional).
But one of the ladies was poor and that phone was the only means she had to communicate with her son who was in another country, and she had no way to get another one.
The other one had a lot of money, so what had been taken from her was not very important because she could get a better phone just by putting her credit card in another place.
Moral: Even if two events are the same, they will not cause the same emotional impact in two different people because this depends on many other factors that are hardly the same in two people (type of life, personality, emotions, ways of thinking, ways of reacting).
You are very right, about telling someone else not to give up, it is something that we should only say to ourselves, to others we should say "how can I help you move forward". 🙂
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That's some great lesson right there 🙌
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