Everyone has a dream in his heart, full of hope, and want to achieve great goals, but reality often fails to make people wish. For example, among recent graduates, due to their high academic qualifications, they are arrogant and have a lot of information. They just want to find a job with a higher monthly salary, and they despise jobs that are lower than expected.
Most of them will feel frustrated in this situation, they will fall into an awkward situation, and even deny themselves, so I often run into a wall when I go out.
The real world allows us to understand that while knowing ourselves, we must recognize the facts and find our own positioning and development direction. Faced with a series of difficulties, we cannot easily be defeated by the cruel reality. We must learn how to effectively resist it. We cannot be ambitious and eager for quick success. But what should we do?
According to one's own positioning, determine practicable goals
Ideals are far away, and reality is cruel. When we set goals, we must do what we can and try to be as close to reality as possible.
Goals and ideals are different. We must carefully consider and analyze carefully to get a practical goal plan. But the goal can not be set too far, because such a goal will not stimulate your fighting spirit, but will make you fall into a negative state, affect your life, will only make you withdraw and lose the motivation to move forward.
For everything, we must prepare for the worst
Many young people are young and energetic, are prone to fever, and do rash things. However, in actual operation, we must consider various situations and try to find the worst result. Prepare for the worst, prepare for the best. So we can't be in position, we can't be humble, but we must be prepared. After preparing for the worst, we can respond to various challenges more positively and optimistically. It turns out that it is better than the worst.
Be clear-headed, don't be impulsive
Faced with a small blow in life, we cannot completely lose our minds and make all kinds of reckless behaviors. This is an escape manifestation of inner weakness. Wise men attribute all wisdom to the golden mean, and know that too much is better than too much. All our actions should be rationally controlled and supported for a period of time.
Learn to control various emergencies and maintain a normal state of mind. Learning to reflect on ourselves is the right choice we should make.