We know that it is not easy in certain circumstances since we have to fight with ourselves since if it is our will, we would choose if it is worth forgiving, we would select whether or not it is convenient for us to forgive and that is what we should put aside all these things, and ask the Holy Spirit for help since He is the one who can help us to take this step that is necessary and the most correct.
• The first is to forgive ourselves since many times we commit or say things about which we feel bad about ourselves and when we remember and know that we did that we feel bad and guilty, then first start forgiveness from within and do As David said: examine my heart since many times we keep things that we must forgive ourselves and feel clean and lose.
• Second, forgive the one who schedules us or hurts us when it comes to loved ones that we have by our side and that many times have damaged us by throwing back any unpleasant moment, pain, offense into oblivion and continue starting again to maintain a good relationship with our loved ones, because many times they are of our blood with whom we have had those bad moments.
• Third, as Jesus taught us in the commandments where he says let us forgive our enemies, I believe that this is the strongest step of all to forgive the one who works evil against us, who, as he says well, there is no friendship between us, but without Yet it hurts us. It is here where we require and need that the Spirit of God with our decision puts in us sincere forgiveness, the personal key is linked to the key of love because we cannot say to have love without forgiving the best demonstration of love is forgiveness.