¡REFLECTIONS FOR PARENTS!

It has been shown that people who act in this way are because they bring problems and have closed in on themselves without trying to solve them, where many times they bring bitter roots and dealing with their children is chaotic but it is never too late to make amends for mistakes of the past since we have a present to assume where the most important thing is the instruction or education of the children because developing their potential is of the utmost importance for their future

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Certainly when we make the determination to be parents we do not have the slightest idea of ​​how we are going to perform as such but what we must be sure that being parents is the greatest and most beautiful thing that we will have to live.

In this sense, it is important to emphasize that our role must guarantee the emotional and physical stability of our children, for this reason we must recognize our weaknesses and promote the best values, trying to avoid the limitations that can bring insecurities and fear to our children.

We must evaluate ourselves and reject the distance, absence and aggressiveness that can put limitations on the emotional and physical development of our children

If we have been like that, that is, arrogant, distant and aggressive, we still have time to change; It all starts with the humble attitude of recognizing that we must change. Therefore, every day we must ask ourselves if we are inspired or hurting the lives of our children.

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Currently the family is under attack due to the various situations that are experienced and many do not know how to handle them in front of their children. The family deformation that exists in the world today is incredible. The person is born into a family and it is assumed that the time has come to form their own. Certainly the new families that are being formed are satisfied with the pressures of the cultural baggage of the country that we live in, of what fashion and concepts impose on everyone broadcast through the media and the aftertastes that we bring and learn in our lives. child. What does the culture and fashion say of the time? How is the family we come from? Values ​​and limits are very important in raising our children since we cannot allow culture and fashion to guide the principles of children

As a teacher and mother, I have always been concerned about the values ​​and practice that I have been observing in our students, the deformation of recent years that we have been observing in school and in society and really as parents and teachers we have to do something to restore society But let us remember that we are going to restore the family first, which is the fundamental basis of society.

In this sense we have to learn to love our home; strengthen our relationships with our spouses and children and set the necessary limits early to be able to plant in them the values ​​that will develop their personality and identity

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Attention, communication, attachment and orientation in a balanced way is very important in the formation of parents for their children, since that is where we are going to determine the future of our children because unfortunately there are too many of our young people who are losing their dreams at an early age and many of them have lost through lack of direction the ability to distinguish between what is good and bad

Many no longer have the values ​​and dreams of their parents, but absorb the distorted values ​​of a sick society for lack of parents to set limits at an early age. We all feel that something is going on with the moral foundations of our culture.

In this regard, Josh Medowell motivating apologist, evangelist and American evangelical Christian writer contributes in one of the most read texts of him Where are the parents? it next:

In this generation people are tired, bitter, exhausted, and have no time for anything

Children, adolescents and young people are the ones who pay the highest price for the lack of parental time and this is because the values ​​are not taught to their children

But the values ​​if they are captured by their children, they learn incidentally

When you are never home and have no time, you miss a great opportunity to teach your children

Children spend more time with their classmates on the phone and with the Internet than with their parents, so where are the parents?

If this world is going to survive it will be because husbands and fathers begin to put their families at the highest level of priority and because they will reserve some of their time, effort and energy for the management of their own homes.

Dear parents and friends, there is nothing in this world that you can accumulate that is more important than your family. When the last days of our lives come to us, What concept will our children have of us? In the end there will be no more satisfaction than at the end of our lives we can remember the love of our family of our children from the times we lived, of the most important memories and all the efforts we made to make them better people, certainly that is priceless.

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As a parent, we must reflect on whether recent events have taught us anything, since communicating, speaking, guiding, and actively participating in a conversation about what we believe and appreciate is one of the most important ways we can educate our children.

We all have conflicts in this life and raising and guiding our children in this time is not easy at all, but if we take the best attitude with firmness and balance, the way we handle conflicts can indicate a sense of trust and resistance and a desire to participate. with calm and respect towards our children because later they will feel grateful for the values that we sow and that today direct their lives with firmness and self-control in the face of life conflicts

Referencia: Manual de enfoque a la familia