James 1:7-8 (KJV): "For let not that man THINK that he shall receive any thing of the Lord".
(8): "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways".
My Beloved, God knows whom you are even in this Period as a Christian, Take this from me today anyone who lives a Double life is always a looser. You are pretending to be what you are not. You are not Genuinely Born Again but you carry bible, dressed like them talk like them, you are living a Double lifestyle.
You are sleeping with a man who has not paid your dowry, you even have children for the man, you insert in your Finger a wedding Ring, you live with him in his house as Husband and wife, Heaven knows you are living a Double life.
Only you is Double Dating, in a relationship with five different people at the same time and you promise the 5 of them Marriage, don't you know you will eventually end up loosing the five of them, and you are saying relationship is not walking for you.
Don't hide your Identity, let people know whom you really are. By doing that, Help will come. Don't pretend to be a child of God when you are not. You will only delay your prayers.
A Double Life style will never get help on time until you start facing Reality of life. Stop Pretence.
By doing this help will come for you when you pray.