"Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health".

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It is a parent duty to strict or draw their children close to them, but this parent strict is like a two side of coin, at times parents strict towards their children might be good at times bad, to make it understandable let's flip the coin to highlight the advantage and disadvantage of parent strict.

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It strengthen and help children walk in a good path, when parents strict their children in a positive way, such children are always known as a good children in a community, such family are always at peace because the parents strict their children according to the word of God.

Parents strict to children help create discipline, when a child is well disciplined, such children are always full of fear to disobey or sin, when parents strict their children in the right path, they mould morals and standards inside their children which can lead to a better people in the society.

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One most popular disadvantage of parents strict to children is unhealthy relationships between parents and their children, such children are always proud to discuss their worries with friends rather than their homely parents, as a result such children can easily be influenced by their grown up friends bad attitude and behavior.

Effect on child growth is another possible disadvantage of parent strict, when children are negatively strict by their parents, such children always grown with lies to avoid trouble leading to lack of self decision making.

It exposed children to anger reaction, the worst part is that this type of children might also grow up with this type of habit, kid's model in what they see and what they hear, they can easily imitate their parents strict when grown up

I came from a family where parents strict children with good morals, I'm alwys happy whenever my parent strict me because I always leant something, but there's this uncle of mind that wherever he is in my present I always feel irritated because he strict negatively, at times I do wonder how his children cope with him.

Just like I always felt irritated whenever my uncle is in my present, I'll always feel irritated whenever I'm in a place of such children who have to face strictness.

True, no discipline seems for the present to be joyous, but it is painful; yet afterward, it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.
I actually do not expect my parents behavior toward me to always be sweeten, yeah at times it will be painful, this sense is what always guide me whenever I felt like my parents behavior toward me is not going well as it should, so I do actually expect good and bad from them, no parents are perfect parents just like we kids.

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Emotional blackmail is when people make one feel guilty when he is not at fault, when this happens it can be regarded as emotional blackmailing, it has several effects on people who face this situation, let's point out two effect

Emotional blackmailing adds extra pressure to kids, such children are always pressured to make a decision of their own, they are always influenced by their parents.

Emotional blackmailing can ruin children's lives till they feel rejected by people around them, during this situation such children might find it difficult to have trust in people around them.

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to everyone reading this post, I wish you all the best of Life❤️🫂.