I often hear, it is said that we as men, when we are married, are revoked as men. So, there is that when the obligation, and the threat.
So, if usually in the contract, it is the right and obligation, after that just sign, and that happens when married. The first thing is, when the wife has to buy clothes. Then she asks for our opinion,
"What color is good, red or blue"?
When we have the right not to choose. Your wife immediately threatens,
"Oh! Is that so, so men are like that"?
We as men are confused, we have to tell her. We have the same rights and obligations, but she doesn't understand. And tonight I will discuss it, how to be a good wife. That's why my theme tonight is,
"Differences are created to complement each other".
Many men are always tired, tired of being called insensitive, indifferent, heartless, insensitive, and many more complaints. Well, but here I try to discuss something different, like I said earlier, why does that happen. They say men are indifferent, like not to focus on what women say. They say men are also insensitive to details.
Well, but today I don't want to see who is right, who is wrong, what it should be like. If so far women, you always demand to be understood, maybe today I want to invite all women. Try today you can understand and comprehend men.
Because by understanding them, and vice versa, by them understanding you, actually that is also a process for us to be able to know more, who we really are.
Well, there are some basic things, so let me just mention it,
"Men and women are indeed different, that's why they are destined to be together".
Maybe you think,
"Yes! I know too, women and men are different".
Hey! Make no mistake, do you really know why they are different?
Well, many people actually don't know, only a few people really know. Even fewer understand, many people know, but they don't understand, they don't comprehend. Well, how can we appreciate, if we can't understand. Well, this is probably where I want to explain first, this is not me pretending to know.
When God first created man, was he created man first, or woman first?
Man first, right?
Then,
"Ohh, I don't think it's perfect".
Finally, woman was created, from the rib of man. So, why was she taken from the rib of man?
So that she was close to his arm, so that she could be protected, and also close to his heart, so that she could be loved.
Now I ask you, why was woman created?
Yes, to complete. And if to complete, does that mean she was created the same or different? Different!
It should be different.
Well, and in the beginning, if we look at the old days, the roles and also the jobs of men, and also women, were different.
So in the old days, really old, we see it easily. Men's job is to hunt, women's job is to take care of, cook, and take care of the household.
So the term is men who look for lunch, wives who guard the nest.
Well, because the task is like that, the nature is like that. So the things that are owned, the skills are also different. Now I ask, to be able to hunt, what skills are needed?
Fast, agile, tough, mental, right?
While to be able to care for, what is needed?
Sensitive, affectionate, feelings, must be able to understand.
So if you really understand, and know about this, you can start to realize,
"Ohh, yeah.... yeah.."
Actually, it's not that men are insensitive, but because they were created, and their physique is for hunting. And to hunt, do we really need to use emotions like that?
No!
And vice versa, if possible women always say,
"Ohh,,,, men are insensitive".
It's the same. If for example men usually like to complain,
"Ohh,,, women think for a long time, make decisions for a long time".
Right?
Well, it's the same, because we were created differently. Well, how do we understand it, and what should we do. To find out, keep following this article.
So, if women are famous for being able to do everything in one thing at the same time. So for example, while cooking, suddenly there is a child crying, she is carried, still cooking. Then after that, her friend calls, she answers the phone, while cooking. Then asked,
"Are you busy?"
No!
Even though she was cooking while calling, and carrying the child.
Because of what?
Yes, because the woman remembered earlier, initially she was caring, and her main role from the beginning was caring. So to be able to care, you have to be able to do many things, right?
Because it is not just one, but several. Well, while men remember their main task in the past, was hunting, so they have to focus. That's why he was created, and can only, but it doesn't mean which is good, which is bad, which is right, which is wrong.
Now let's see, most successful people, most of them are men, why?
Because they focus, even for some areas, which should be dominated by women, for example cooking. But look at the most famous chefs in the world, they are dominated by men.
Hairdryer, it should be women, but it is dominated by men. The reason is because we men focus, on our goals, and we can really fight hard, but we get what we want. That's our advantage, compared to women.
I think, that's enough discussion about unique facts about men and women, which may be rarely known. Hopefully there are benefits that can be obtained, see you in the next post,
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam