What are the advantages and disadvantages of parents strict behaviour?
While strict parenting is good in that it sets limits and provides direction for the child, it also creates a feeling of restriction. The organization will develop these traits such as discipline, personal responsibility, and good conduct. Knowing the rules and consequences help in maintaining stability that promotes good health of the children.
Furthermore, tough parents normally push for good grades at school as well as high achievements. On the other hand, the parents using a strict approach may encounter various drawbacks. If children are subjected to excessively high standards of discipline they may suffer extra stress and anxious expectations for error or punishment.
In addition, authoritarian parental style could prevent children acquisition of an open avenue for dialogue between parents and their offspring. It also interferes with emotional growth of a child, strains parent-child relation as well as children’s inability to openly express themselves for fear of negative consequences.
What do you feel if you were at the place of such childrens who have to face strictness?
Of course, I will feel very much bad. These children are likely to be afraid, anxious, and frustrated. Permanent hardness can result in an environment, where they sense that their autonomy is being taken away from them, making it difficult for them to express themselves freely. It generates anxiety that results into feelings of incompetency as well as worry about committing errors or falling short.
However, some children may like the formality of strict parenting and recognize the benefits they got by learning those life lessons. However, to some people it may not be easy because it could impact on their self- esteem and how they interact with others. Creating an atmosphere of support that nurtures the individual development needs of a growing child requires striking the right balance between guidance and freedom.
As a child, what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior?
As a child, I would probably expect warmth, comprehension and fair limits from my parents. Such an encouraging and supporting environment is very important for me to freely say everything that I will have in mind and emotions without the fear of being mocked.
It goes without saying that reasonable boundaries as well as teachings of responsibilities are crucial in creation of the structure. consistency in discipline helps me to know what is expected and makes me feel safe. Unfortunately, I would wish these boundaries were put in place with a view of my age and development.
What are the negative effects of emotional blackmailing?
This form of behavior is capable of causing a severe damage to relationship and people in general. Emotional manipulation is used by one party to take over another in order in order to gain control and cause harm. It is very stressful for such people because their experiences, desires, and interests are ruthlessly cheated upon.
Emotional blackmail can lead to the breakdown of trust and communication over a duration. In turn, this may cause resentment and frustration that will make the person feels as a prisoner with no authority over his/her self. People should be able to understand and confront emotional blackmail, and develop more positive forms of communication between themselves.
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I completely agree with you that the children of parents who are very strict live in a kind of stress. Because there is pressure on them. The stress of getting good grades in the entire class sometimes makes them lag behind in their studies because due to fear they are unable to concentrate on their studies. Therefore, teach children to work hard in competition, rather than forcing them to study under pressure. May you get success in the competition.
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Welcome back and you have a great post.
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Hola!
Justo como dijiste, muchos niños con padres estrictos suelen tener miedo, miedo hacia ellos y miedo de fallar por lo que dirán ellos, los padres estrictos crean una inseguridad sobre sus hijos y les hacen creer que ni cometen un error ya fallaron el la vida, cuando esto es falso, todos cometemos errores y no somos perfectos. Éxitos en el concurso.
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¡Saludos amigo!🤗
El miedo hacia los padres por tener un comportamiento muy estricto suele ser delicado además de que, esa situación quebrantaría la relación con sus hijos ya que, el miedo le abre la puerta a la desconfianza y, esta última también conduce al resentimiento por lo que, desde el ángulo que lo podamos analizar, un comportamiento estricto sin límites es muy desfavorable.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚
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Hello dear, How was the day ? I wish to all there are in peace and living their best moments of life. Your presentation is also very good. Parents are the first teachers of children, hence it is very important to communicate with children and parents can do this only by becoming friends. Discipline can be established in the minds of children only when they respect their parents and this Soft parents do the work better
Wish you good 👍 ... may you always achieve whatever you aim for yourself in life and make the best journey ✨ .
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Have a beautiful day 💛
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