Good day, dear blog steemit readers! Today we will try to understand such a question whether ambition is good or bad. After all, it seems that without them, it is impossible to achieve success, career growth and, in general, achieve your goals. On the other hand, they can sometimes really interfere with life, reducing the quality. So, let's try to find the «golden mean» to balance their level and point them to work for you, not against them.

TYPES

In fact, ambition is a person's need to achieve success, which prompts him to act, these are his desires that not only exist, but have a claim to fulfillment. Can be:
low price, impossibly high. That is, when one's level of confidence does not correspond to reality. The world's way of thinking and behaving comes down to everyone being owed, to deserve the best, without giving anything in return. For example, having somehow graduated from university, without the necessary skills and knowledge, he immediately claims a prestigious position in a large organization.

Really

When a person is conscious, he understands his strengths and the gaps that need to be worked on. He knows how to rely on his resources, he knows what he wants to get and the effort required to do this. He never rests, the process of self-improvement is continuous.

lowering the goal

When confidence is too low, a person prefers to "put it down" so as not to be rejected again. They may have amazing abilities along with disbelief in their abilities, constantly underestimating themselves. Because there is dissatisfaction with life, because they often ignore its needs. And sometimes he cannot follow them, adapting to the care of strangers only, hoping in this way to gain recognition.

Good parenting of the child contributes to the goal of the child

A lot depends on the parents. A child, like a sponge, absorbs the value system and the nature of life from the moment they are born, and especially what they expect. The child does not know what he is, only thanks to his relationship with his parents, he builds his image a little. And if they don't know how to really evaluate their abilities, then, accordingly, they can't learn this. It often happens that adults, having failed to achieve something, with the help of children, who do not always know, try to fulfill their potential and fulfill their dreams.

For example,

the father, for some reason, did not build a sports career, and now he gave his son boxing. He demands success, and he doesn't pay attention to the fact that the child is not interested or successful. There are times when someone who is already an adult asks the question: "Why do I have so many ambitions?". If he returns to his childhood thoughts, he remembers that they only paid attention to him when he succeeded in something, that is, they thanked him and were not proud of him, but only succeeded. And now I've fallen into the trap of thinking that love has to be earned

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