My dearest Steemians friends... This is me!
The what | Me |
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Introvert or extrovert | Introvert |
Idealistic or realistic | Realistic |
Clever or careless | Clever |
Shy or confident | Confident |
Prioritize feelings or prioritize thoughts | Prioritize thoughts |
Speak out frankly or better shut up | Better shut up |
Like to joke or not like to joke | Both |
Well, this is indeed me.
It might come to some as a surprise that I am an introvert but believe me when I tell you that I was clever enough to accept it. I have no desire to force myself to become an extrovert to succeed in life.
Being an introvert is maybe what made me see the world in a total different light by thinking realistically. By dropping pessimism and optimism I see the world as it is. I see the difficulties of life as it is and I know how to address them step by step. For me, it is also setting achievable goals, and dreams that can be measured and finding a balance between being happy and unhappy.
I may not always be the life of the party, but hey, that's okay with me. I wouldn’t say I like having the attention on myself. It is like going to the movie house. Some of us like to sit in the front row and others in the last row. I prefer the latter. To sit and watch is often the better place to be and not the front row where you think you are going to see the movie first. Does this label me as being shy? Not at all! Does this label me as a party pooper? Why don’t you invite me and let’s see.
That brings me to being clever. We should all know by now that being clever isn't just about being book smart or having a high IQ. Oh no! This is all about what your teacher told you from a young age, to think out of the box. Something that so many are too scared to do. Or maybe they are just too lazy or careless to think for themselves. Let me leave you with a question today. What is the difference between clever, smart, and witty?
You know how they say confidence comes with time? This is absolutely true. There were times in my life when I doubted myself but as I moved on in years I realized that there is only one person to be trusted and that is myself. I have to put faith in what I believe I can accomplish and most importantly I had to put faith in my instincts. Those of you who have children will know all too well what this means. Being confident opened many doors in my life.
If you search Aunty Google for the meaning of prioritize you will find “organized, methodical, or efficient.” Oh yeah, this is me. I find confidence in knowing that I don’t do too badly prioritizing my thoughts, my tasks, and my time better than most, allowing me to make well-informed decisions. You should try it sometime. It does wonders for the soul when you prioritize things especially when you prioritize those thoughts.
Some might mistake my quiet manner as being standoffish or arrogant, but the truth is that I simply prefer to listen rather than constantly chime in with small talk, not to mention telling jokes. Anyway, I am one of those who never have jokes to tell because I cannot remember them. BUT, let’s not forget that “but.” Life as it is, is one serious ride, and if you don’t make a joke or two, I do feel sorry for you, as it is going to be one hell of a bumpy ride.
So yeah, you could say that when it comes to various situations, I tend to keep my mouth shut and focus on what truly matters to me. And honestly? I wouldn't have it any other way.
I invite @ngoenyi, @aviral123 and @dove11 to participate in this contest
ACCOUNT SUMMARY: | 29 June 2024 |
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Club status | Club100 |
Transfer to vesting: | 9,909.000 STEEM |
Normal transfer: | 98 STEEM (Competitions and charity) |
Thanks for inviting me- I will answer all your points here:
Note- I have done my today's post and the contest is expiring soon but thanks for inviting me.
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Thanks @patjewell, the pleasure was all mine 😄
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Dengan membaca postingan anda, walaupun kita tidak saling mengenal, namun saya dapat melihat beberapa kepribadian yang anda miliki, memang sebaiknya kita menjadi diri kita sendiri, dari pada hidup penuh dengan kepalsuan untuk mencari sensasi dan perhatian dari orang lain. Karena jika kita hidup hanya dengan memperhatikan pendapat orang lain, dan harus bertingkah laku dengan harapan orang lain, maka sungguh melelahkan.
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Oh yes! You are 100% right! We must always be true to who we are and not to who others want us to be.
As the saying goes, "you are born as an original, so stay as an original."
Thanks for the visit and the engagement 🎕
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Sama sama
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Not everyone has the ability to do this. You must have read a lot of books to be skilled in this. I find it hard prioritizing when it comes to my time and has really made things disorganized.
I could learn from you…
I see some few funny jokes you make on post and also on comments and I’m a bit surprised you’re an introvert, I was expecting the extrovert..😊
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I've been like this as far as I can remember. My mom always said I was a pain when I was a child, as I always wanted things to be "organized."
My biggest learning curve was running my own businesses. If you cannot prioritize, you are going to fall behind. Often, it is the downfall of smaller businesses.
As for those jokes... it is different when you write than in real life. (•ิ‿•ิ)
PS: Thank you for the visit!
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Thank you!
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I am always asking the holy spirit to help me keep my mouth shut even when i have something to say but in most cases i find when i have said it.
Why?because saying it makes me feel better.
But as always,your posts get me to learn so much.
Introverts are the happiest people .
All the best my dear friend @patjewell
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It is nice to see you back in action again.
You sound just like my daughter. If she has something to say, she will say it, no matter who the person is. There is nothing wrong with that. I often wish I was like her. Just let it out and feel better.
Inronverts are indeed happy people. (•ิ‿•ิ)
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@shiftitamanna
Thank you! 🎕
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