Most times, I had heard women saying "Men are very disrespectful towards women," and I've been wondering why men would choose to disrespect women.
Just a little digress.
A woman bought something from her fellow woman, and asked her to please, keep it in her shop, that she'll come later to collect it.
The other woman accepted and kept the item for her. After all, she's her customer.
But some hours later, the business woman remembered that she had to go and give her two twin children injection, at a nearby health center.
And if she fails to, it's going to be at the detriment of her kids.
So she hurriedly locked up her shop and headed to the hospital.
Not too long she left, before the other woman arrived to take the item she bought. But she couldn't see the woman.
She got angry and was raging furiously. The People around, explained to her what the woman went about.
She went home and later returned. Yet the business woman wasn't back from the hospital.
She got more upset.
"I'm going to do what this woman wouldn't like oo! Why would she lock her shop without waiting for me to take my item?!."
"I'm going to pull down this shop oo!."
She continued.
"This woman is a witch! She's a witch! She intentionally locked her shop! She's a witch!."
Those were her words.
People around were trying to calm her down, but she didn't heed to their consolation. She kept calling the other woman all sorts of obnoxious names.
The woman later returned from the hospital. She started raging at her furiously for the second round.
The business woman was like.
"Why are you saying all these? You're a mother, right? And you should understand this situation better. I went to give my kids injection to save their lives and you're busy calling me a witch and other damning names."
She cried tears. While the other showed no remorse concerning her actions.
Now, why is it that women whom are supposed to be their fellow women's keepers, are the ones inflicting more pains on them?.
Women are complaining that men are not treating them right, but they're partially the ones making it worst for themselves.
Once a woman disgraces her fellow woman in front of men, she disgraced herself as well.
She's giving men the impression that women worths nothing. Show men the example of the way you wants them to treat you.
Inferiorizing and belittling your fellow woman in front of men, is not only going to make women vulnerable in the hands of men, but it's also going to earn them more backlash from men. (Although, most men values women)
Listen, men can be very respectful to women, but to only those who respects themselves.
Women should learn how to support and love themselves, in order to get the same from men. When someone sees how much you Values yourself, it'd cause that person to value you as well.
So women, be your sisters' keepers. Treat and respect yourselves the way you wants men to treat and respect you.
The ruin of a nation, begins from its respective homes.
One don't have to be his/her own problem.
Sometimes, women are the architect of how societies sees them.
They should stop gossiping about themselves. They should stop keeping malice over something that takes nothing to solve.
That's why men would always be men, after throwing punches today, tomorrow they'd forgive each other and move on.
Once women know their values and respects each other, the society wouldn't be needing interpreters to understand that they're ready.
Women, help the world to change how they view you. Because self-love should come first.
Love ❤️ &💡Light.
Until the heaven calls, do for others that which you wants others to do for you.