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In real life, the husband-wife relationship is a key factor in the happiness of a family, once the relationship between husband and wife loses balance, naturally the marriage will be affected, and there will be more and more disharmony in the family.
Therefore, in everyday life, husband and wife must maintain the interaction and emotional relationship. Intimate relationship between husband and wife is very rare. Once you have it, you have to appreciate it, and you can't go there just because you think the relationship between husband and wife is good, ignoring each other.
However, some couples don't know how to maintain their close relationship.Two people who used to be very loving have experienced life's breakdown and become the most intimate strangers.
Why is there something like that? In fact, the reason lies in getting along with details, especially language communication, a little attention can have unimaginable consequences.
In most cases, the better the relationship between husband and wife, the less you have to say a few words.
Since you don't plan to listen to the other person's opinion, don't ask him or her again.
In married life, it cannot be denied that husband and wife will make some decisions together, which can effectively improve the relationship between husband and wife and make the family very harmonious. But some things have been decided and you don't want to listen to each one. other people's opinion. Ask each other.
Obviously this is a trivial matter, and you've already decided what to do, but you're still asking each other their opinion. If two people's ideas coincide, it naturally won't affect the relationship between husband and wife, but once inconsistencies occur If you don't 'If you plan to listen to other people's thoughts, it's very easy to create gaps between each other.
Maybe you think the relationship between two people is very good, and there will be no conflict at all because of this incident, but someone's "cold heart" accumulates. After more things happen, the relationship between each other will definitely be affected, and that will make the other person feel very uncomfortable.
In most cases, because you have made a decision, you should tell the other person directly rather than keep asking other people, but you don't mean to adopt other people's opinions. This can easily lead to gaps between partners.
Don't talk about complaining and disgusting each other
Sometimes husband and wife always feel close to each other, and it doesn't matter if they occasionally say words of complaint or dislike, because they feel that the relationship between husband and wife is very strong and will not be affected at all.
Many people often say that husband and wife do not really care about what you say and what you do. Sometimes swear words are used to express inner love. In fact, the more intimate the husband and wife relationship, the more considerate they will be in the long-term relationship, and after a breakup, leaving room for retention.
If you hurt other people again and again by complaining and being nasty, but you don't realize it at all, you will have your relationship crash at a very ordinary time.
You know, no relationship is permanent. Even husband and wife relationships need to be taken care of, express deep love for each other, and pay attention to what you say, but if you don't really care, you are likely to lose. This relationship.
do not be angry
Conflict is bound to erupt between husband and wife. At this time, some people will rely on the intimacy of their relationship and unconsciously speak angry words, which obviously lead to minor conflicts, but also because the angry words spoken are endless. Quarrel.
Some people may think that the relationship between husband and wife is a "quarrel at the end of the bed," but in fact the relationship between husband and wife will run out, especially in this case, angry words that you unconsciously say very much. can hurt feelings between husband and wife, and cause emotional upset.
Some emotions, once damaged, cannot be returned to their original state.
Moreover, a husband and wife relationship that looks very close is actually very fragile, if you don't pay attention to it yourself and often say angry words, then who would want to be with you? After all, marriage is for happiness, not as a "bag."
In partner life, it is easy for people to form a "one-size-fits-all" mentality. They feel that the relationship between husband and wife is close enough and they can sit back and relax, even start asking for it uncontrollably, especially if it brings unnecessary language conflicts, drains husband and wife feelings, even intimate relationships will eventually be affected.
In fact, the most important thing for a partner to get along is to give and absorb. When the two can be maintained in a balanced state, the relationship will naturally become more intimate, but once this balance is lost, I am afraid. that there would be a lot of quarrels between the couple, and even finally announced a broken marriage.