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Yes, trust is important. Trusting too much will only provide many opportunities for your partner to cheat or leave.
Too distrustful, then only erode the comfort of your partner and train your partner to be smarter at lying and reasoning.
Yes, compatibility is important. No matter how dear your partner is, gradually we will understand, what is the basis of love. And we are only human, boredom will come with whatever we have.
Yes, understanding is important. If you understand too much, you will only give in too much and put your partner forward.
Too not understand, it will only automatically create a boundary of discomfort between yourself and your partner.
But from what I know, the relationship with the extreme point as I discussed above still exists and persists.
The buffer is one: Responsibility.
Responsibility for starting a relationship, responsibility for accepting his feelings, responsibility for getting wet, responsibility for turning into porridge, responsibility for children, family, work, and many more.
Spouse made a mistake?
He has a responsibility to correct, and I have a responsibility to correct. He has a responsibility to apologize, and I have a responsibility to forgive.
Couples don't believe it?
I have a responsibility to be more trustworthy, and he has a responsibility to learn to trust. If he is otherwise overly trusting, I have a responsibility not to break his trust, and he has a responsibility not to break trust easily.
Loving someone is easy. We can love just anyone, trust just anyone, understand and fit in with just anyone, whatever it may be.
We can build a relationship with anyone. Whether it's matched, or just try - try. We can just "shoot" classmates, and friends we just met online.
Then somehow, everything ended up being able to have grandchildren together until they turned to dust.
@belenguerra || @fendit
