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Now, I understand the dislike of hearing the word 'as is'.
It's just a word, because there doesn't seem to be anything tangible to be gained from it.
Others might say:
"Heh, I've done all of that as is? I've had enough time with myself as I am, and I often do it because I just need to watch my mind wake up, and sometimes after paying the annual fee. gone, I take a break without doing anything. what, I've been there for a week?
You should have the freedom to say this.
"I hate the communist party for what it is."
The state of disliking 'as is' is your state as it is.
However, the reason why I work hard on 'as is', which I really don't like, is because I want to get out of the state of reality as it is. It's like being 'what is' to avoid being what is.
It acts so that it doesn't exist.
You may have had the experience of being left as is.
Remaining in an abandoned place without knowing the word, you may resent your very existence.
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You may blame yourself for experiencing the person who left you like an idiot who had no choice but to stare at the reality of his departure without doing anything.
'There it's bad. If I don't act right, they will all go away from me.'
For you, who you are now is a catalyst to remind you of moments you don't want to experience again.
If it stays like that, it looks like it will be thrown away again.
Like that, it's like a state of helplessness for you. This is a hint of a helpless reality that has no choice but to lose something valuable.
So even in a grueling and difficult situation where you have no choice but to be yourself, you better be 'what you are'.
You have to do something.
An action that will prove your usefulness and value, so you will not be thrown out.
If I stand still and be a fool, all my friends pass me by and run away somewhere in happy heaven. I was left alone in a place where everyone smiled and went to an unknown paradise. It's my fault because I'm stupid. You're not doing the right thing. I have to lead the way on the path that many people walk, or give people what they want and keep it by my side.
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So I have to be a popular entertainer or get rich like a fixer. At the very least, I should be a psychotherapist.
Silly moments became like that, ruined my life. This is embarrassing. I will never make this mistake again. I wrote a lot and gained popularity, I advertised that the entertainer in this area was me, I made money selling books, I solved problems when there was trouble, and I would no longer live a helpless and miserable life. This is exactly what 'as is' I want.
It's not that you don't like being who you are.
It is scary like that.
This is the fear of being dumped.
But did you know?
The easiest to throw away are disposable paper cups.
The most useful tools are the easiest to dispose of.
The more you act to be useful, the more likely you will be left out.