Hold yourself responsible to a higher standard than anybody else expects you to be after you have been through so much pain.
Never pity yourself, never look down on yourself and never entertain negative thoughts either.
For as we have all come to know, you are exactly what you think you are.
Listen to me once more, never use negative words to discourage yourself in your mind in any way. Not even as a joke. Do you know why? Because your mind does not know the difference between negative words and positive words. It feeds on the thoughts and words you say and act on.
For this reason, our minds usually work in patterns. The patterns are from whatever words or images you have been feeding it with. Once you enter into a blank mode, of not knowing what to do or react something, it automatically then tries to recollect words or images it has stored up for you to ease itself back to your
"normal person mode".
Should this unforeseen circumstance happen, what do you think your mind will recycle from its archive and bring back to you to normalize you?
Will it be positive or negative thoughts.
No wonder Jesus said As a man thinks so is he. You're what you feed your mind with. And it then gives you the exact results you fed it with. So start paying attention and working on your mind.
No matter how discouraging life may be for you, never say you can't do something or try anything... for everything we see in this world today was once thought to be impossible to do, but today, we can all see it is done.
Until you try, again and again, you will never know how strong you are or how far you can go in your life.
What's your excuse for giving up??
Learn to build a strong wall around your negative mind by believing and saying: it is possible, I can do it!!!!