Here is my sharing and elaboration related to the contest theme.

Basically, the life of living things in this world is destined to be in pairs to complement and complement each other.

The role of a father and a mother in a family is very influential on the lives of their children. The condition of a family without the presence of a father or a mother in my opinion will affect the physical and mental development of a boy or girl.

This is according to my own experience that since childhood I have been left by my father who died in an accident. As a daughter, I really felt the loss of a father figure, as well as my younger brother who also never had the chance to see our father's face because he was still a baby when he passed away.

We were raised solely by my mum. She tried to play a double role. But I still miss my father. I think a father's upbringing is different from a mother's upbringing. Indeed, the point of every parenting pattern from a father or a mother is for the good of their children.

Every parent, of course, always wants to give the best for their children. In this case, I think it is okay if parents sacrifice themselves to achieve happiness and goodness for their children. As long as what is sacrificed is for positive things

But sometimes parents also need to weigh the good and bad effects of their efforts in putting aside their own goals or dreams for their children.

I think parents should be wise in determining priorities in their lives and the lives of their children. And not too pampering and fulfilling the wishes of the child. So that they do not become a person who always depends on others.

Everyone has the right to choose something or make a choice in life. I respect and honour the decision of people who do not want to have children.

However, in my opinion, all these decisions are certainly based on various factors that cause them to make such decisions. It could be due to traumatic reasons, financial reasons or mental unpreparedness to be a parent.

But basically having offspring or children is a wish and dream for those who are a married couple. Having children is a form of achievement to continue the lineage in the family. Having children is also a beautiful thing, and can strengthen the love between couples and families of both partners.

Being a parent may seem easy and trivial, but basically when deciding to get married and have children, there are many things that must be prepared.

I strongly agree with the above statement, because being a parent is not a trivial thing, especially in parenting, do not let it go wrong and the child becomes wasted.

Physical, mental and financial readiness is needed in order to be a good parent in fulfilling the needs of their children. The costs of health, education and children's living needs are not small, and must be prepared to be spent by parents.

This is my writing today as a contest participation in week 1 of season 11 in the colombia original community. I would like to thank everyone who has visited my blog and provided support. Until we meet again. Best wishes to all the team members of the colombia original community.

Vote @pennsif.witness for growth across the Steemit platform through robust communication at all levels and targeted high yield developments with the resources available. Vote here

Best Regards,

@sailawana

About me

---