Reading this reminded me of when I was a 'working mum', having to leave the house hours early in order to make drop-offs and still get to work on time... many (child-less) colleagues would comment saying 'I don't know how you do it!' to which my simple reply was always, 'Well, I have no option, I'm a parent and it's just gotta be done...'. Hope everything works out and that you both remember to get some rest (at some point during the chaos)