There is a time in everyone's life when they feel like everything is shattering in front of their eyes: take it as the death of a beloved, losing or not getting a respectable source of income, some relationship issue, family problem, lacking resources to. All these hardships have a potential to either make us or break us. It is us, who decide our own future, if we let those moments of hardship destroy our inner peace or be a new person who will make things work for our own self.
By being patient, respectful, positive, realistic and continuing to be your own helper is how you solve your own problems.