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January 24 , 2021
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âž°In verse 11 of Surah Rad of the Holy Qur'an, Allah has given a way to change a nation, that is, to change oneself. Surely, Allah does not change the present condition of a nation until they change their own condition. It is clear from this verse that if anyone wants to change himself and decides accordingly, Allah will help him.
But I have to give myself time to change, think about myself and promise that I want to change myself. Every small mistake has to be changed and everything has to be done with love. Even if you drink a glass of water, if you make a mistake, you have to be careful in drinking this water. It is through these small changes that our personal life will improve and it is through this change in individual life that society will change.
Changing yourself is not an easy task. In order for us to change ourselves, we have to seek help from Allah and say to Allah - Allah, I want to change myself. You guide me to the path of light in the path of goodness. There are also some steps that need to be taken immediately that will make it much easier to change yourself.
âž°Set the right goal:
- Setting the right goals is one of the best ways to transform yourself. Goal setting is an art that will tell you why you are traveling. We set many goals and change them. Doing so wastes our precious time. So if you want to change yourself, you have to have a clear idea of ​​what I will do in life, where I will be, and what I want from life.Then it will be easier to set goals. But remember to set goals to change yourself in a way that is specific and achievable. Set a time frame for achieving your goals and don't let your goals get in the way of your imagination and move forward with the big goals in small steps.
âž°Identify problems:
- I want to change myself - this thought did not suddenly come to your mind. Why and for what are you thinking of changing yourself? Where is the problem? Find out the problem. If necessary, write down your problem on paper and determine why this problem has occurred and what steps you can take to eliminate it and change yourself.
âž°Get started today:
- I'll start tomorrow, not today. If you have this thought in your head, there is no possibility of changing yourself. So start today with what you need to do and what you want to do. Take small steps if necessary. It will be easier for you to change yourself if you start working slowly and gradually increase the amount of work as per the goal every day.
âž°Give regular autosuggestion:
- Autosugen means to speak positively to oneself, one's mind. There is a lot of power in this positive talk. If you keep telling yourself over and over again- I am a successful person, I am a successful person or I will change myself the way I want to see myself. Then you will see that your mind will do whatever it takes to achieve success.So give yourself autosuggestion as per your need regularly to change yourself. Here are two examples of autosuggestion to change yourself through autosuggestion.
I will greet everyone sincerely, I will speak with a smile.
As a result, my closeness with them will increase.
âž°Visualize the change scene:
- Our thought process is mainly the analysis of the images reflected on the screen of the mind. The novelist Kurt Vonnegart says that we imagine what we imagine ourselves to be. We are constantly creating the image of ourselves in our minds, the picture that we are drawing in our minds, in real life we ​​are becoming the same.So in the case where you want to change yourself, behave exactly as you imagined when you changed yourself. Then see how fast you can change yourself.
âž°Pay attention to health:
- Anything and everything you can tackle if you are healthy. A healthy happy person always behaves positively and is a cause of happiness for everyone. A healthy person can be called healthy and strong only if he eats a balanced diet, sleeps well at night and works hard during the day. If you have not been physically well for a long time, make sure there are no problems and one of the steps to change yourself is to keep your health in mind at all times.
âž°Learn from mistakes:
- There is no man who has not made a mistake in life. Those who have gone to do something, who have come forward with the urge to change themselves, have made some mistake. So if you make a mistake, take it as normal and learn why it is wrong and how to avoid it.
âž°Be patient:
- I don't want to say much about it. Be patient to learn how patience plays a role in changing yourself.
In fact, life is very short. Our lives will become more meaningful if we can avoid these small traps of this small life and adhere to these ways of changing ourselves. So promise yourself today- yes, I want to change myself.