Half a year in love, men urged to get married, women angrily broke up: good relationship requires consistent rhythm

How long is it suitable for marriage to fall in love?
To be honest, there are unfortunate couples around me who have been in love for many years, but still divorced in the end. There are also couples who have quickly married after only one month and are still happy.

So I personally think that there is actually no specific time for marriage. As long as you feel that your relationship is about the same and you can start the next stage of life, you can start a family.

Of course, before entering the marriage, you must first think about some of the problems that may exist in the marriage, and try to prevent them before they happen.

Although marriage requires impulse, it cannot be just impulse and no preventive measures for the future. At any time, having a sense of precaution will help you in your future life.

Marriage is not as easy as falling in love. It is neither easy to fall in nor as good as love. Once you enter marriage, the trivial and complicated relationships of life will come oncoming. How to adapt quickly and resolve them properly requires couples The two work together.

A good marriage will give people hope, and a bad marriage will give people despair. As for whether the marriage is good or bad, in addition to choosing the person is very important, how to manage it is also very important.

Feelings with inconsistent rhythms, in addition to putting pressure on both sides, will also have other problems, such as inconsistent thoughts, not being able to talk together, and beginning to dislike each other.

To make a simple analogy, a couple, the boys are very positive, but the girls are lazy. At the beginning, they are new to each other and may be attracted to each other, but after a long time, serious people will dislike not enough people. People who work hard and not serious will complain that serious people have put too much pressure on her.

A good relationship is not only about your own rhythm, but also about the rhythm of the person you love. Only in this way can the relationship between each other develop at a common frequency, without causing panic and mistrust to the other side.

Like some people, falling in love is about getting married. In the face of such a partner, you should give a promise in time to prevent the other party from suffering gains and losses.

But if you are encountering a new-age woman like Shen Siyi who does not aim at marriage or is very cautious about marriage, then don't be too anxious.

The most taboo in the relationship is to overstep, the best way is to let the flow go.

The so-called go with the flow is to follow the laws of nature, not to oppress, let alone to urge, when the relationship between two people really reaches a certain stage, there will naturally be new development.

Some things, the more anxious, the weaker they will be.