A letter to you who are fighting for your life, changing your destiny and chasing your dreams.
Have you ever ridden the subway in the morning rush, trying your best just to put one foot in the subway, as if the internal organs are squeezed together, unable to breathe; have you ever ridden the last subway, so quiet that only the radio accompanies you.
Have you ever shared a room with 4 or 5 or even more people or lived in a semi-basement or just rented a bed; have you ever looked at the old residential buildings downtown from the car and thought, when will I be able to live in a house like this ......
If you have such feelings, then congratulations, you may have joined the team of drifting, struggling and trying to live in a foreign place.
You are fighting in the city, day after day, toiling away, it seems to have been very hard, but it seems to be lukewarm, more than the top than the bottom, the original intention of the initial departure, the initial dream seems to be washed away by the flood of life, farther and farther away from you.
The city is big and inviting, able to accommodate people from all over the world. The city seems to be very small and resistant, as if it can not accommodate you.
But there are some people, their physical fatigue can not hide the firmness of their eyes.
They are in the crowded subway, looking for cracks, to find a sliver of space, to be able to put down a book rolled up, so that they have been squeezed to distort the words on the book is good.
They drag their tired bodies back to the shared room, turn on the lamp, and without time to relax, they plunge into reading, writing, creating and thinking.
They get up at 4-5 in the morning and start the study and work mode when everyone else is asleep ......
Have you ever thought about what you are doing in the subway, back in your rented room, at 4-5 o'clock in the early morning?
No one don't want to change, no one don't want to live a better life, no one don't want to play a greater value, no one don't want to achieve the dream, but the implementation of the behavior but repeatedly indulge themselves.
Human thinking determines behavior, and present behavior shapes the future you.
Therefore, to change the status quo, to make a step forward and to break the existing situation, you need to upgrade your thinking, then implement it into your behavior, and then repeat the behavior over and over again, which is what we call persistence. In the persistence to develop habits, from the habit to gain.
But the change of thinking is not easy, because we have long formed their own mental models.
It is said that girls are born roadkill. Xiao Li, who works as a real estate agent in Beijing, tries hard to figure out the community she is responsible for, how to get around, what supermarkets and restaurants are around, etc., because she wants to earn more commission. Every time you show your customers a house, you can be accurate, fast, and talk in a good way.
But when they go out on weekends, they often get lost and always have to call their friends for help.
The mental model or subconscious mind deeply influences our behavior. In fact, 95% of human behavior is determined by the subconscious mind, and the brain only determines 5%.
Fortunately, you can learn the mindset, analyze yourself, keep refining, and then work hard and pay in the right way to morph into what you want.
Let the future you thank the one who is struggling right now.
There is nothing more enjoyable than living the way you want to after a lot of hard work.
So inspiring. Using words to paint the perfect picture. Thank you 😊
Downvoting a post can decrease pending rewards and make it less visible. Common reasons:
Submit