How to define a woman's success?
I am a strong supporter of feminism, but I have to admit that women are naturally emotional animals. On the contrary, most men are more rational than emotional.This determines that most women in the emotional world will always be the more humble side.I don't know how biologists or psychologists explain this strong emotional sense of belonging for women, but I think when I sit here and type out this article, I've already made a positive argument.Moreover, a woman, in the process of growing from a girl to a woman and then a mother, experiences too much physical pain.The pain of menarche, the pain of the first night, the pain of childbirth.These are what every born woman is forced to experience by the world.These pains, penetrating into the growth of women, gradually develop into psychological and emotional weakness and powerlessness.After taking off her armor, she is just a poor child struggling in pain.Of course, this does not mean that they are not strong enough to achieve the same achievements as men.However, when God created man, he took only Adam's rib and created Eve.
So, how to define a woman's success?Mariana in the film, the helmsman of New York fashion, lives the life that many girls dream of.She took off Prada and pompous makeup, but she was just a poor woman who had experienced many failed marriages and raised two daughters alone.But who can say Mariana is not a model of successful women?On the way to becoming Mariana, Andy, the heroine, chooses to walk away and become the original one who can only wear knitwear and successfully pursues his original intention.As an outsider, they have no right to comment on the quality of these two seemingly opposite ideals and pursuits, because they are aware of their own interests.All in all, as the glass ceiling theory says, it's really harder for women to succeed in their careers.However, this is not because of the differences in ability or intelligence between men and women, but because women have a more delicate and rich emotional world, which is both a home and a burden.
What kind of person are you going to be?
”What is my goal?What kind of work will you do and what kind of life will you live in the futureThis has always been a puzzle for me, which always haunts me, but it seems that there is never a standard answer.Fortunately, when I revealed my confusion to my parents, they asked me, "so, what kind of person do you want to be?"Instead of telling me, "you want to be like this."
"What kind of person do you want to be?"For Mariana, what she needed was ambition, achievement, and power, so she became the witch in the purdah.For Andy, her answer is the opposite of Mariana.Love, family, friendship, self, these are things she can't give up, so she turned back to the ordinary girl in the sweater.What you get and what you give up seems to be the opposite.I hope that one day when I face such a trade-off, I can do as much as they do.
For me, I think any woman who survives her life with strong confidence and a smile on her face is a successful woman.
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