A good son is a dream and the wish of every mother and father. Goodness is cultivated by cultivating good morals in the child from his early years, and good upbringing is not based on orders and laws. Rather, the child acquires it from around him and sees it embodied in the behavior of his parents, then in the surrounding environment, and most of the time the method of education is innate in the sense of Right and wrong are self-evident matters, but these days it has become different, as there are different parallels and differing opinions about right and wrong, so we find many mothers and fathers looking for ways to raise children and raise them together, so we know in the following lines the best of those methods, which may be the most useful and fittest For our children.
Best methods of raising children successful:
1. Follow the balanced pattern in education:
Some believe that issuing orders in an authoritarian manner, dictatorship in dealing with children, and sometimes resorting to violence to impose control is the best solution in parenting and obedience, but on the contrary, this method affects the child's personality and self-confidence, It is reflected in his dealings and actions with others, as well as absolute indulgence is not the solution, as it makes the child not respect the laws and rules, and does not adhere to societal morals and customs, but the solution is to behave and balanced education, as it must be dealt with softness and firmness together, that is, after setting the limits and prohibitions from wrongful behavior by others Desirable with an explanation and citing convincing reasons.
2. Parents' observation of their behavior:
that is, the parents do not always utter true and false, and the forbidden things, then either of them do these actions, but for the rules of education to be consistent and clearly embodied in their behavior, it is the mirror from which the child learns from birth until he is growing up.
3. Parents respect each other:
The father and mother are the role models for the son, so they must maintain respect between them regardless of the disputes that they are going through, which may pass through any marital relationship, but without exchanging insults and hurtful words so that they do not reflect anxiety on the character of the child and his sense of insecurity, and loss Respect or hate his parents.
4. Respecting the child in front of others:
Among the mistakes that parents may make is mentioning the child's faults and mistakes, or criticizing his behavior in front of others, which embarrasses the child, and shakes his psychological formation, until he grows up with a weak personality and tends to be introverted, so the child should not be insulted in front of anyone, especially his friends and peers, and leaving Reprimand and arithmetic without the presence of strangers.
5. Appreciation and reward upon success:
Whether this is academic success or in his behavior and behavior, it is important to appreciate the son and praise him so that he continues in these behaviors, and their importance increases to him, and let there be a reward in appreciation of him and an expression of his success.
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